Episode 3
Narcissistic Abuse & Your Nervous System: Reclaiming Your Voice (Part 2)

In Part 2 of this conversation on narcissistic abuse and the nervous system, we move from awareness into integration — focusing on what it looks like to reclaim your voice, rebuild self-trust, and choose freedom after prolonged emotional abuse.

If you listened to Episode 2 and found yourself thinking, “That’s me,” this episode is about what comes next.

I continue my story by sharing how, after years of abuse and trauma, I attended The Bridge to Recovery in Kentucky for six weeks of intensive treatment. That experience helped me address childhood abuse, sexual abuse, neglect, and abandonment — and I left grounded, anchored, and clear.

But healing doesn’t just live in logic — it lives in the nervous system.

In this episode, I talk about how even after deep healing work and clarity, the nervous system can still pull you back toward familiar patterns. When this person re-entered my life, my mind knew it was wrong — but my body was still conditioned for survival. The discomfort was there, but my nervous system hadn’t yet learned that safety no longer required chaos.

It took time for my logic to catch up to what my nervous system had been trained to expect.

We talk about trauma bonds, why knowing the truth intellectually doesn’t always lead to immediate action, and how healing often unfolds more slowly in the body than in the mind.

This episode also explores boundaries — not as punishment or control, but as protection. Boundaries are not about changing the abuser; they are about honoring yourself, guarding your heart, and partnering with God in your healing.

This is an episode about discernment, not self-blame. About restoration, not rushing. And about learning how to live from truth instead of fear.

What This Episode Covers
• Why clarity doesn’t always lead to immediate action
• How trauma bonds keep the nervous system stuck
• Healing after intensive trauma treatment
• Why your body may resist safety even when your mind is clear
• Reclaiming your voice without forcing or shaming yourself
• Boundaries as nervous system protection
• Discernment versus self-doubt
• What healing actually looks like in real time

Nervous System Insight
Healing happens when your body learns that it is finally safe to tell the truth. You don’t have to force yourself to be brave — safety is built through consistency, compassion, and honoring your limits.

Biblical Perspective
God restores agency. He does not require endurance at the cost of your well-being.

• Proverbs 4:23 — “Guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
• Psalm 147:3 — “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
• Isaiah 61:1 — “He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted… to proclaim freedom for the captives.”

If This Resonates
If you are learning how to trust yourself again, stay grounded in truth, or hold your boundaries even when it feels uncomfortable, you are not behind — you are healing.

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You are God’s daughter — beloved, deeply known and understood, with potential and purpose.

XOXO,
Amy

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Disclaimer
This podcast is for educational and supportive purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care, medical treatment, or legal advice. If you are experiencing severe distress or are in immediate danger, please seek help from a qualified professional or contact your local emergency services.