Superstar Mediators: Louis Tesser – Unmasked | Lawyers Without Billboards - Ep 20
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Think mediators just pass notes between lawyers all day? Think again.
In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, legendary Atlanta mediator Louis Tesser joins the Shewmaker & Lewis team to pull back the curtain on what really goes down in a domestic mediation. From sausage-eating contests and Stanley Tucci impressions to emotional breakdowns and attorney egos, Louis shares the candid truth about the psychology, pressure, and performance art of high-stakes family law negotiation.
🎙️ Hosts: Steve Shewmaker, Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis, Alexa Lewis
🦸 Guest: Louis Tesser, Mediator Extraordinaire (and possibly the Jewish Stanley Tucci)
👨⚖️ Hosted by Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta-based attorneys helping families navigate divorce, custody, and criminal defense – with zero billboards and zero BS.
🔍 You’ll learn:
- What really makes a good mediator (hint: it’s not neutrality)
- Why humor can make or break a mediation
- How emotional rollercoasters shape negotiation outcomes
- Why the best trial lawyers are often the best at settling cases
- What lawyers do that drive mediators crazy (and how to avoid it)
📌 Chapters:
00:00 – Meet Louis: Mediator. Musician. Tucci Enthusiast.
06:00 – From Litigator to Mediator: Why He Switched
10:00 – The Long Day: How Mediation Really Works
15:00 – What Makes a Lawyer Mediator-Friendly?
18:00 – Real Talk: Are You Just Chasing a Pound of Flesh?
22:00 – Emotions, Egos & the Wisdom Bubble
28:00 – The “Super Officer” of the Court
👉 Have a question or topic idea? Visit shewmakerandlewis.com
🔗 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards
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📺 Video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5C_F77CB_qs
📩 Contact: [email protected]
🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions
🎥 Produced by Rob Burgner at Bleeding Edge in Atlanta, GA
Chapters
1. Intro – No Billboards, Just Real Talk (00:00:00)
2. Meet Louis Tesser: Mediator & Tucci Doppelgänger (00:01:45)
3. From Litigator to Mediator (00:05:30)
4. What Mediation Really Feels Like (00:08:50)
5. Behind the Scenes of a Mediator’s Day (00:11:40)
6. Pet Peeves and Attorney Pitfalls (00:14:25)
7. Can Mediators Give Legal Opinions? (00:18:15)
8. Emotions, Egos & the Wisdom Bubble (00:21:00)
9. Telling Clients the Hard Truth (00:24:15)
10. Mediator War Stories (No Names!) (00:27:40)
11. Louis’s Favorite Place to Mediate (00:30:00)
12. Wrap-Up – Super Officers of the Court (00:32:15)
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