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Albert Bramante: Overcoming Self-Sabotage - Lessons from Broadway to Business
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Albert Bramante sits at a fascinating intersection of psychology, performing arts, and innovation. With 20 years of experience coaching Broadway stars, teaching psychology, and helping people overcome limiting beliefs, he brings unique insights into how we sabotage our own success.
At the heart of our conversation is a profound exploration of why our brains resist the very achievements we claim to want. Albert explains how fear of success can be more paralyzing than fear of failure—because success demands identity change, increased responsibility, and shifted relationships. When you succeed, you become someone new, and that terrifies the part of your brain designed to maintain stability.
The revelation that hit me hardest was about impostor syndrome. Albert shares stories of A-list actors questioning their performances despite their fame and accolades. Rather than viewing these feelings as weaknesses to overcome, he suggests they're natural human experiences that keep us humble and growing. We don't eliminate impostor syndrome; we learn to work with it.
Drawing from his doctoral research, Albert unpacks the personality factors that contribute to self-sabotage: high neuroticism combined with low conscientiousness creates the perfect storm for undermining our own efforts. His book "Rise Above the Script" provides practical strategies for recognizing and rewriting these self-limiting narratives.
What makes this conversation particularly valuable is Albert's integration of cognitive behavioral techniques with NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming). He demonstrates how shifting perspective—literally seeing situations from different viewpoints—can break the grip of negative self-talk. The simple act of questioning "According to whom?" when we tell ourselves "I'm not good enough" can open entirely new possibilities.
Whether you're pursuing creative ambitions, navigating career transitions, or simply trying to understand why you keep hitting the same ceiling, this episode offers both the psychological framework and practical tools to break through. As Albert reminds us, "There's no such thing as rejection, only a simple reminder that your services are not needed today."
Resources from this episode:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/albertbramante/
Chapters
1. Meeting Albert Bramante (00:00:00)
2. Finding Purpose Through Connection (00:10:42)
3. Understanding Self-Sabotage (00:17:49)
4. Fear of Success and Identity (00:30:25)
5. Rejection in the Entertainment Industry (00:42:37)
6. The Big Five Personality Factors (00:53:25)
7. The Truth About "Not Being Ready" (01:06:18)
8. AI: Augmentation, Not Replacement (01:22:54)
9. Final Thoughts and Personal Philosophies (01:34:54)
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