In this episode, Kevin discusses:

• Why self-leadership is the hardest form of leadership
• The importance of feedback as a mirror for growth
• How perception shapes influence and connection
• The role of humility and self-awareness in building credibility
• Moving from positional authority to authentic influence

Key Takeaways:

• The toughest person to lead is yourself. Leaders often give themselves grace they wouldn’t extend to others, excusing motives and overlooking flaws, yet growth begins when we hold ourselves to the same standard we expect from those we lead.
• Feedback is the mirror every leader needs. Honest perspectives — especially from those who think differently — reveal blind spots and help refine character, effectiveness, and empathy.
• Perception is reality for those who follow. A leader’s actions are always louder than their words; people mirror what they see, not what they’re told. Consistency builds trust, while hypocrisy erodes it.
• True leadership starts with conquering yourself before conquering the world. Embracing discomfort, inviting criticism, and making daily adjustments allow leaders to grow into the person their influence requires them to be.

"When you judge another, you don't define them, you define yourself." – Kevin Neal

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