There are some phrases that hit harder than a slammed door—and not in a good way. “That’s above your pay grade.” “We’ve always done it this way.” “Just figure it out.” Heard them? Said them? Brace yourself, because this episode is about to blow up the toxic language that’s quietly wrecking your team.

I am diving straight into the verbal landmines that leaders drop without even realizing they’re doing damage.

These aren’t just awkward phrases—they’re morale assassins, creativity killers, and trust-destroyers. If your team feels deflated, disengaged, or like they’re being treated like cogs instead of human beings, your words might be the culprit.

Because real leaders don’t hide behind tired scripts. They speak with clarity, confidence, and respect.

So if you’re ready to stop sounding like a broken bureaucratic record and start leading like someone worth following, buckle up. This one’s going to sting… but it’ll make you a better leader.

Hit play. Get uncomfortable. Then get better.