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Why Quiet Disorganized Attachment Is So Devastating | Adam Lane Smith

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What happens when Quiet Disorganized Attachment makes love feel unsafe but loneliness unbearable? Adam reveals how this hidden attachment style forms, why it’s so misunderstood, and how healing begins.

Topics Covered:
👉 What Quiet Disorganized Attachment looks like in relationships
👉 The childhood roots of this attachment style (unsafe and demanding parents)
👉 How trauma creates emotional shutdown and perfectionism
👉 Why psychology often overlooks or misdiagnoses this attachment pattern
👉 The key differences between “loud” and “quiet” disorganized attachment
👉 How fear, shame, and survival instincts shape adult behaviors
👉 Steps toward recognizing and healing Quiet Disorganized Attachment

If you enjoyed watching this episode, you might love 'Dr. Orion Taraban: Why Modern Men Are Failing at Intimacy'. Watch here: https://youtu.be/rYdzdGReDqg

Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/@AttachmentAdam

Work with Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist:

1- https://adamlanesmith.com/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
2- https://adamlanesmith.com/product/how-to-love-an-avoidant-man/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
3- https://adamlanesmith.com/product/the-attachment-bootcamp/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
4- https://adamlanesmith.com/work-with-me/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
5- https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-repair/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social

Want to learn your attachment style, and sign up for Adam's weekly newsletter? Click the link below to receive your copy and sign up now.
https://adamlanesmith.com/newsletter-signup/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social

If you want to know your attachment style , take our free attachment quiz: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-assessment/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social

Connect with Adam on your second preferred platform:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro
X: https://twitter.com/adamlanesmith
Threads: https://www.threads.com/@attachmentadam
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/
I Wish You Knew Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh_uRUnpQwNZb_WG76TxTTw?sub_confirmation=1

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Content provided by Adam Lane Smith & Andrey Korikov, Adam Lane Smith, and Andrey Korikov. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Adam Lane Smith & Andrey Korikov, Adam Lane Smith, and Andrey Korikov or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

What happens when Quiet Disorganized Attachment makes love feel unsafe but loneliness unbearable? Adam reveals how this hidden attachment style forms, why it’s so misunderstood, and how healing begins.

Topics Covered:
👉 What Quiet Disorganized Attachment looks like in relationships
👉 The childhood roots of this attachment style (unsafe and demanding parents)
👉 How trauma creates emotional shutdown and perfectionism
👉 Why psychology often overlooks or misdiagnoses this attachment pattern
👉 The key differences between “loud” and “quiet” disorganized attachment
👉 How fear, shame, and survival instincts shape adult behaviors
👉 Steps toward recognizing and healing Quiet Disorganized Attachment

If you enjoyed watching this episode, you might love 'Dr. Orion Taraban: Why Modern Men Are Failing at Intimacy'. Watch here: https://youtu.be/rYdzdGReDqg

Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/@AttachmentAdam

Work with Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist:

1- https://adamlanesmith.com/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
2- https://adamlanesmith.com/product/how-to-love-an-avoidant-man/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
3- https://adamlanesmith.com/product/the-attachment-bootcamp/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
4- https://adamlanesmith.com/work-with-me/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
5- https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-repair/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social

Want to learn your attachment style, and sign up for Adam's weekly newsletter? Click the link below to receive your copy and sign up now.
https://adamlanesmith.com/newsletter-signup/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social

If you want to know your attachment style , take our free attachment quiz: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-assessment/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social

Connect with Adam on your second preferred platform:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro
X: https://twitter.com/adamlanesmith
Threads: https://www.threads.com/@attachmentadam
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/
I Wish You Knew Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh_uRUnpQwNZb_WG76TxTTw?sub_confirmation=1

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