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S3 E7 - The Burned Haystack Dating Method | Jennie Young

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Key points of the episode:

  • The root of the "Burned Haystack" method
  • How women think online dating is going to be bad - and it's worse!
  • Her lightbulb moment.
  • How she is helping women.
  • The science and application of "rhetorical patterns"
  • How to mainly spot the toxic patterns, and avoiding self gaslighting.
  • The "test and apologise" technique.
  • How pre burned haystack most of her dates were a waste of time, and how less but better matches come when you follow the 10 "rules",
  • Example: Rule#1 - The app is a tool not a place to live or a game.
  • How and why men seem to mainky have a lot of spare time.
  • How messaging is preferable to swiping and scrolling.
  • The "Block to Burn" technique.
  • The rest of the techniques overview.
  • The biggest challenges women face.
  • How men may well need to change.

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You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....
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Key points of the episode:

  • The root of the "Burned Haystack" method
  • How women think online dating is going to be bad - and it's worse!
  • Her lightbulb moment.
  • How she is helping women.
  • The science and application of "rhetorical patterns"
  • How to mainly spot the toxic patterns, and avoiding self gaslighting.
  • The "test and apologise" technique.
  • How pre burned haystack most of her dates were a waste of time, and how less but better matches come when you follow the 10 "rules",
  • Example: Rule#1 - The app is a tool not a place to live or a game.
  • How and why men seem to mainky have a lot of spare time.
  • How messaging is preferable to swiping and scrolling.
  • The "Block to Burn" technique.
  • The rest of the techniques overview.
  • The biggest challenges women face.
  • How men may well need to change.

Get in touch to learn more:

Support the show

Has this podcast inspired you and would you like to learn more?
You can reach out to Lucy, love coach, relationship counsellor, couples counsellor extraordinaire and author of "How to have extraordinary relationships with absolutely everybody".....
On:http://www.lucycavendishlovecoach.com/

  continue reading

38 episodes

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