Losing a loved one is never easy, but what happens when grief is tangled with anger, betrayal, and financial hardship? In this powerful episode, we sit down with Michelle O’Toole, who faced the heartbreaking loss of her father—only to discover the crushing debt he left behind. As she navigated the emotional weight of grief, Michelle also had to confront the unexpected financial burden, forcing her to balance mourning with survival.

She opens up about the complex emotions of loving someone while resenting the choices they made, how she found strength in the chaos, and the ways she learned to heal and move forward. This raw and honest conversation explores the messy realities of loss, the impact of financial stress on grief, and the resilience it takes to rebuild.

If you’ve ever struggled with complicated feelings after losing a loved one, this episode is for you.

If you want to connect with Michelle, you can find her on Instagram: @shell_otoole_photography or @otooles.on.tour

Useful links:

https://www.cruse.org.uk/understanding-grief/

https://www.gov.uk/debt-advice

https://www.moneysavingexpert.com/loans/debt-help-plan/