In this inspiring episode of Her Next Act, host Joan Paul sits down with Monya Elgart, an optometrist turned visionary land steward who is courageously redefining what life can look like after fifty.

Following a Gray Divorce, Monya chose to reinvent rather than retreat; purchasing an 85-acre farm and transforming it into Durham Equestrian, a poetic sanctuary for horses, humans, and healing.

Joan and Monya explore what it means to pursue a dream in progress, how to navigate uncertainty, rebuild confidence, and honor both joy and struggle along the way. Their conversation reveals the courage it takes to create something meaningful in midlife, even when it looks nothing like what came before.

Episode Highlights:

• How Monya reimagined her life on an 85-acre equestrian property
• What inspired her to embrace reinvention after navigating a gray divorce
• The emotional and practical lessons of starting over in midlife
• How horses, land, and nature became unexpected catalysts for healing and creativity
• The story behind Durham Equestrian and its mission to nurture people, animals, and the environment
• Why perfection isn’t the goal and how progress, presence, and joy are the real markers of success
• The importance of supportive relationships and surrounding yourself with people who align with your vision

This heartfelt conversation is a reminder that it’s never too late to design your next act, one built on courage, creativity, and purpose. Whether you’re beginning again, following a long-held dream, or searching for meaning after a major life change, Monya’s story will leave you feeling grounded, hopeful, and inspired to take your own next step.

Connect with Monya Elgart:

Website: https://www.durham-equestrian.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/durham.equestrian

Learn more and follow along with me - Joan Paul
Website: https://hernextact.com/

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Thank you for listening and remember, you're never too old, and it's not too late! That one day is now!
xojoan