When you find a big enough YES! it's easy to say NO! A big enough YES keeps you tuned into your deepest values. You'll be wired to eliminate frivolous spending and wasted money.

Today, we continue our 3-part discussion about money.

Last week we talked about your money mindset. As a reminder, It's critical to hear the WHOLE story from your partner when it comes to money. There are 3 skills to help you hear that whole story: Notice, Get curious, and Understand your partner's deepest values.

In this episode, I’ll tell you about my son’s journey with his own money mindset and how his values deepened and his spending changed as he matured.

Date Night Discussion

This week, I invite you to ask yourself some questions to help clarify your values around money:

• Who do you long to become?
• What story do you want your mother, your father (or that person in your life you most want to make proud), what story do you want them to tell about the way you used money to become the biggest version of yourself?
• Can you name the desires that money bought you when you were young?
• Can you name how those desires changed when you were first living on your own? How about now?

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