#385 Running your race.
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Caught in the spiral of social media comparison? You're not alone. That feeling of inadequacy while scrolling through perfectly curated highlight reels is universal—and it's silently sabotaging your leadership potential.
This episode tackles the hidden cost of comparison and offers a liberating truth: the only race that matters is the one you're actually running. As your growth coach, I explore how comparison steals your focus, erodes gratitude, and burns valuable energy you could be investing in your authentic path. Think about it—would you run a marathon constantly turning your head to check everyone else's position? You'd trip, burn out, and miss your own milestones.
High-performing leaders understand that living on someone else's scoreboard is a recipe for failure. Instead, I share three powerful strategies to break free: defining your own metrics of success (before Instagram does it for you), celebrating others' wins without competing (their success proves winning is possible), and redirecting comparison energy toward internal growth. The freedom that comes from dropping comparison isn't just personally fulfilling—it's a leadership multiplier that allows you to create from authenticity and abundance.
Ready to stop running races that were never yours to begin with? Visit growthinstigators.com to share how I can help you or your team grow. Consider this question: When in your life or leadership are you still measuring yourself against someone else's journey rather than defining your own path to success?
Chapters
1. The Comparison Trap (00:00:00)
2. Welcome to Growth Instigators (00:00:28)
3. Leaders Can't Use Others' Scoreboards (00:00:54)
4. Breaking Free From Comparison (00:01:32)
5. Closing Thoughts and Call to Action (00:02:19)
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