Becoming My Self: Rugare Gomo On Owning Identity, Creating Safe Spaces, Asking For Help, And Pursuing Freedom From There To Here podcast

Becoming My Self: Rugare Gomo on Owning Identity, Creating Safe Spaces, Asking for Help, and Pursuing Freedom

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In this episode, host Emma Bellamy-Dodd speaks with Rugare Gomo, author, leadership coach, and Zimbabwean-born migrant, about his journey toward embracing his authentic self in Australia. Rugare discusses growing up under strict societal and cultural expectations, navigating identity as a gay Black African man, and overcoming years of statelessness and exclusion. He highlights the unique tensions migrants face between safety and authenticity, and the resulting challenges to mental health and belonging. Rugare describes his path to self-acceptance as gradual, shaped by forming genuine communities and learning to ask for help. He rejects the myth of the “self-made” individual, emphasizing instead the collective power of community. The conversation stresses the value of creating safe spaces for others, the importance of curiosity and courage, and how adversity can be transformed into agency. Rugare encourages listeners to celebrate their resilience and seek connection as foundational to personal and societal change.

Resources mentioned:

Forging my own path, by Rugare Gomo

The words that remain, by Sténio Gardel

Ego is the enemy, by Ryan holiday

Connect with Rugare:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rugaregomo/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rugaregomo/

Instagram: @rugaregomo

Website: https://www.rugaregomo.com/

Chapters:

(00:00:00) Introduction to Rugare's Journey

(00:00:43) The Impact of Statelessness

(00:01:10) The Quest for Freedom

(00:01:26) Navigating Identity and Safety

(00:04:29) The Infinite Possibility of Migrants

(00:05:18) The Importance of Community

(00:17:59) Messages of Change and Growth

(00:36:24) The Power of Asking for Help

(01:02:19) Creating Safety for Others

(01:05:00) Reclaiming Identity

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