In this episode, Drew Hornbein (dddrew.com) and I open up about bisexuality, early sexual exploration, the ways men crave touch, and how intimacy between men often gets tangled with shame. We talk about cuddling in public, breaking down barriers of male closeness, and how even video games can become a space for trust and rites of passage.

Drew shares about his creation of Dark Moon Tarot, the grief of losing his best friend Ainslee, and the impact of growing up without male mentors. Together, we reflect on expression, suppression, and what it takes to reimagine male intimacy in a culture that leaves men lonely.

We share our vision for a men’s Reevaluation Counseling group — a rolodex of brothers willing to witness and be witnessed in raw, messy expression. A sacred space for men to co-regulate, discharge emotions, and reclaim the power of being fully seen. If you feel called, reach out to be part of this experiment in sacred masculine witnessing.