Understanding Coercive Control and the Harms Inflicted on to Adult and Child Victims [350]

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“He doesn’t hit you, so it must not be abuse.” Yeah, no. That tired old line needs to die.

This week, I sat down with Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a powerhouse expert on coercive control, the kind of abuse that doesn’t leave bruises but instead, destroys lives. Christine breaks down how abusers don't need fists to dominate; they weaponize EVERYTHING from the court system, to churches, to your very own kids.

If you’ve ever been dismissed, disbelieved, or labeled “too angry,” this episode is a masterclass in seeing the invisible, calling it what it is, and taking your power back, even if you have to fake it ‘til you make it from the ICU of your life.

What You’ll Learn:

Why coercive control isn’t a form of abuse, it IS abuse. Period. Full stop.
How abusers hide behind charisma, charm, and a well-timed Bible verse.
The horrifying way the legal system often rewards abusers and punishes protective moms.
How abuse affects children, even when it’s subtle, and especially when it’s court-sanctioned.
Why your anger is holy fire, not a character defect.
How to start healing and parenting differently, even while walking through hell with a diaper bag.

Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question here

Related Resources:

Check out Dr. Christine Cocchiola’s website.
Connect with her on Instagram and Facebook.
Read FRAMED: Women in the Family Court Underworld, Dr. Cocchiola’s co-authored book.
Get her free map called Clinical Implications for Children Who Are Coercively Controlled
Watch her recent TED Talk: It’s All Coercive Control

Christine M. Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW is an expert on the experiences of adult and child victims of coercive control. A college professor teaching social work, she received her doctorate in clinical social work from New York University working under the tutelage of Dr. Evan Stark. She presents nationally and internationally on the concept of coercive control with a focus on educating professionals, advocates, and protective parents, on the experiences of children and best intervention strategies for adult and child victims of coercive control/narcissistic abuse. Her Clinician Certification Training is ASWB approved for 14 CE’s. Dr. C is the creator of The Protective Parenting Program, a therapeutic evidence based attachment focused program for parents of children harmed by abusers and the co-author of FRAMED: Women in the Family Court Underworld.

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