Can you bring someone's attention to something without making him/her feel guilty and judged....You see,we can actually say a lot of things both good and bad behind someone's back but confronting the person in question will help a whole lot in addressing the issues we desperately need the person to do something about.. Sooner or later we might accept the logic that people don't change because we want them to but because they have realized it's their only way to true happiness and fulfilment... To an extent a good number of us engage in this time_consuming activity of talking about people behind their backs without the slightest idea or awareness of doing it at all.. Talk about how Mr A is such a lazy man feeding from hand to mouth,How Mr O is so bossy and Mrs B so damn good to a fault..And how Mr Z's kid are too stubborn and wayward.. The list can go on and on...I still remain your humble host Double Cliq..Happy listening!!