Mental Health Monthly: Facing Near-Misses and Navigating Mental Health and Vulnerability In this episode of Mental Health Monthly, Dan DeGryse and Chris Muscle talk about the often-overlooked impact of near-misses and losses in the fire and military services. Drawing from over 30 years with the Chicago Fire Department and military combat experience, they discuss how critical incidents shape mental health beyond the visible scars. DeGryse opens up about a haunting near-miss from early in his career and the personal trauma tied to his father’s suicide attempt, revealing the weight that so many of those in service carry quietly every day. They unpack the stigma around vulnerability, the challenges of after-action reviews, and the importance of balancing critical reflection with grace and positive recognition.