Dating someone with kids isn’t just about love—it’s about timing, maturity, and serious decisions. In this episode of Finding Love, Jenni & Stephen Hendrix dive deep into what happens after the spark: when you’ve met the child, things are serious, and the road to marriage is real.
We break down the challenges that come after “I love you”—from co-parenting dynamics and family loyalty, to boundaries, discipline, and long-term planning. If you’re building a life with someone who already has children, this conversation is a must.
🎯 Watch if you’ve asked:
• What changes once I meet their child?
• Am I ready to become a stepparent?
• How do I balance my needs with theirs?
• What boundaries do we need with the ex?
• Are we truly ready to blend our lives?
⏱️ CHAPTER TIMESTAMPS
00:00 – The viral post that sparked this conversation
01:30 – When love gets real: meeting the child
04:45 – Parenting roles vs. stepparent identity
09:12 – Boundaries with the ex (and in-laws)
13:05 – What your partner needs from you now
16:40 – Co-parenting is a team sport (or a warzone)
20:25 – Money, loyalty, and unspoken fears
24:45 – What your relationship teaches the kids
28:00 – Respecting parenting styles (without losing yourself)
32:30 – Final advice if you love a single parent
Drop a comment if you've ever loved someone with kids—or if you're in it right now. What did no one warn you about? What advice would you give your past self?
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