If you’re asking where you stand—he’s probably already answered.
In this emotionally charged episode, Jenni & Stephen Hendrix revisit one of their most commented-on videos and go even deeper into the patterns of breadcrumbing, emotional unavailability, and the confusion women are too often asked to accept.
Why do women keep giving grace to men who keep them guessing?
What does emotionally available pursuit really look like?
And how do you separate a man who’s “not ready” from one who’s just not ready for you?
This conversation is personal—with honest stories, clear advice, and the bold reminder: you deserve to be pursued with clarity.
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In this episode, we unpack:
• Why clarity is the biggest green flag—and confusion is a red one
• How to spot breadcrumbing and “almost effort”
• The difference between chasing love and receiving it
• Why “I’m not ready” is often code for “not for you”
• What emotionally available pursuit sounds and feels like
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Chapters & Timestamps:
00:00 – He’ll show you if he wants you
03:45 – Breaking down YOUR comments on our viral clip
07:10 – “Not ready” isn’t always honest
11:56 – Are you his placeholder or his priority?
15:22 – Peace vs. pressure: how love should feel
19:39 – Loving someone who’s not all in
23:18 – Jenni on how women lose themselves in “waiting”
26:40 – Stephen speaks on pursuit with clarity
30:04 – Growth vs. self-abandonment
33:13 – The truth: He’ll move mountains if you’re the one
Chapters & Timestamps:
00:00 – He’ll show you if he wants you
03:45 – Breaking down YOUR comments on our viral clip
07:10 – “Not ready” isn’t always honest
11:56 – Are you his placeholder or his priority?
15:22 – Peace vs. pressure: how love should feel
19:39 – Loving someone who’s not all in
23:18 – Jenni on how women lose themselves in “waiting”
26:40 – Stephen speaks on pursuit with clarity
30:04 – Growth vs. self-abandonment
33:13 – The truth: He’ll move mountains if you’re the one
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💡 The right man doesn’t make you question your worth—he confirms it.
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