Have you ever felt like your life was spiraling out of control despite your best efforts to keep everything balanced? I certainly did – juggling roles as CEO, mother, wife, ministry leader, and student while spending 13-15 hours at work daily. My pursuit of balance led to a shocking wake-up call when stress paralyzed my body, forcing me to reconsider everything.
That traumatic experience revealed a profound truth: the very concept of balance was my problem. When we're constantly trying to balance everything, something inevitably falls out of balance – usually ourselves. After my health crisis, I discovered a revolutionary perspective. Life isn't meant to be balanced; it's meant to be harmonious.
Think of harmony like an orchestra where each instrument plays its part at the right time, creating beautiful music together. Or consider a swing set – when properly assembled with every piece in its correct place, it moves smoothly. Similarly, harmonious living doesn't mean abandoning responsibilities but giving each aspect of life its proper place and timing. This shift transformed my approach to my multiple roles without abandoning any of them.
For women, especially, the pressure to balance everything perfectly creates dangerous levels of stress that can manifest as serious health problems. Living harmoniously means establishing boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and recognizing when something needs adjustment. It requires regular maintenance as life circumstances change, but the rewards are immeasurable – reduced stress, better health, and a more fulfilling existence.
This revelation has become my guidepost for living unapologetically. By choosing harmony over balance, I've created a life that honors my commitments while protecting my well-being. What area of your life needs more harmony right now?