In a world that often feels unsafe, uncertain, and chaotic, how do you cultivate true inner safety without abandoning your essence?

In this solo episode of ENHEARTENED, I guide you through a deep exploration of shadow safety vs. soul safety two radically different ways we relate to our internal world when faced with external threat or emotional pain.

You’ll learn:

• What shadow safety is and why it feels like safety but costs you wholeness

• Why abandoning yourself has become your default coping strategy (and how to stop)

• The truth about nervous system capacity, vulnerability, and self-protection

• How to start building sovereign safety: the kind that doesn’t shut down your heart

• How to stay rooted in presence, even when fear, shame, or grief arise

This is a conversation for anyone seeking embodied power, emotional resilience, and the courage to live open-hearted in a polarized world.

🎧 Listen until the end for a step-by-step blueprint to begin cultivating soul safety in your daily life.

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Chapters:

00:00 – Intro: Why safety needs to be redefined

01:40 – Shadow safety: The illusion of protection

05:50 – The fragmentation trade-off and dissociation

09:15 – The myth of control and nervous system reactivity

12:40 – Soul safety: Safety rooted in presence, not protection

17:30 – Real life examples: shadow vs. soul safety in action

23:10 – How to build sovereign safety (step-by-step)

30:45 – Staying with emotion without adding meaning

33:20 – Final questions for reflection + integration

34:30 – Outro + how to stay connected

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