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ERP 494: Designing Love That Lasts: 6 Principles for Lasting Connection — An Interview with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh
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About this Episode
What if everything you know about love is a myth—built on luck, chance, and hope? The truth is, many of us walk into relationships with big dreams of “happily ever after,” only to find that real connection can feel overwhelming, elusive, or even impossible to sustain. We use words like “respect,” “trust,” and “compassion,” but rarely stop to define what they truly mean for ourselves and our partners. Without a roadmap, couples often end up lost in confusion, miscommunication, and heartbreak.
In this episode, you’ll discover a fresh, research-backed framework for designing love that actually lasts. You’ll learn about the six key ingredients necessary for truly thriving relationships and uncover why love can’t survive on feelings alone. By diving into practical strategies, real-world examples, and self-reflection tools, this conversation offers a powerful guide to recognizing what really matters in your connection and how to nurture it, every single day.
Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, Ph.D., is a renowned author, speaker, and thought leader in relationship dynamics. With experience in 41 countries, she has advised hundreds of couples, governments, UN agencies, and corporations. Her book, Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love, explores six key principles for thriving relationships. Dr. Nasserzadeh’s work has been featured in leading media outlets, including NPR, The New York Times, BBC, CNN, and more.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. Episode Highlights05:45 Dr. Sara’s unique approach to relationship dynamics and global work.
09:43 Unpacking the emergent love research model and its origins.
10:58 Grounded theory research: Analyzing couples and identifying relationship patterns.
15:52 Defining core relationship concepts and the search for universal ingredients.
19:19 Emergent model findings: Moving beyond “love comes first”.
21:01 Three phases of research and development of a relationship assessment tool.
24:42 The six key ingredients for lasting love.
29:11 The power of loving behaviors and nonverbal communication in relationships.
32:20 Cultural and physical factors that influence emotional connection.
34:32 The importance of everyday gestures and their impact on intimacy.
38:07 Small actions and social etiquette: Nurturing connection in daily life.
44:49 Understanding your “love blueprint” and core sensitivities.
45:56 Knowing yourself: Quirks, pet peeves, and vulnerabilities in relationships.
49:24 Dr. Sara’s resources, final thoughts, and where to connect.
MentionedLove by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love
Connect with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh
Websites: sara-nasserzadeh.com
Facebook: facebook.com/Dr.SaraNasserzadeh
YouTube: youtube.com/user/DrSaraNasserzadeh
Instagram: instagram.com/dr.saranasserzadeh
Connect with Dr. Jessica HigginsFacebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship
Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins
Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/
Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins
Twitter: @DrJessHiggins
Website: drjessicahiggins.com
Email: [email protected]
If you have a topic you would like it to be discussed, please contact us by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.
Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.
Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.
Thank you!
*With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
495 episodes
ERP 494: Designing Love That Lasts: 6 Principles for Lasting Connection — An Interview with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh
Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
Manage episode 506791603 series 2876131
About this Episode
What if everything you know about love is a myth—built on luck, chance, and hope? The truth is, many of us walk into relationships with big dreams of “happily ever after,” only to find that real connection can feel overwhelming, elusive, or even impossible to sustain. We use words like “respect,” “trust,” and “compassion,” but rarely stop to define what they truly mean for ourselves and our partners. Without a roadmap, couples often end up lost in confusion, miscommunication, and heartbreak.
In this episode, you’ll discover a fresh, research-backed framework for designing love that actually lasts. You’ll learn about the six key ingredients necessary for truly thriving relationships and uncover why love can’t survive on feelings alone. By diving into practical strategies, real-world examples, and self-reflection tools, this conversation offers a powerful guide to recognizing what really matters in your connection and how to nurture it, every single day.
Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, Ph.D., is a renowned author, speaker, and thought leader in relationship dynamics. With experience in 41 countries, she has advised hundreds of couples, governments, UN agencies, and corporations. Her book, Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love, explores six key principles for thriving relationships. Dr. Nasserzadeh’s work has been featured in leading media outlets, including NPR, The New York Times, BBC, CNN, and more.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. Episode Highlights05:45 Dr. Sara’s unique approach to relationship dynamics and global work.
09:43 Unpacking the emergent love research model and its origins.
10:58 Grounded theory research: Analyzing couples and identifying relationship patterns.
15:52 Defining core relationship concepts and the search for universal ingredients.
19:19 Emergent model findings: Moving beyond “love comes first”.
21:01 Three phases of research and development of a relationship assessment tool.
24:42 The six key ingredients for lasting love.
29:11 The power of loving behaviors and nonverbal communication in relationships.
32:20 Cultural and physical factors that influence emotional connection.
34:32 The importance of everyday gestures and their impact on intimacy.
38:07 Small actions and social etiquette: Nurturing connection in daily life.
44:49 Understanding your “love blueprint” and core sensitivities.
45:56 Knowing yourself: Quirks, pet peeves, and vulnerabilities in relationships.
49:24 Dr. Sara’s resources, final thoughts, and where to connect.
MentionedLove by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love
Connect with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh
Websites: sara-nasserzadeh.com
Facebook: facebook.com/Dr.SaraNasserzadeh
YouTube: youtube.com/user/DrSaraNasserzadeh
Instagram: instagram.com/dr.saranasserzadeh
Connect with Dr. Jessica HigginsFacebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship
Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins
Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/
Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins
Twitter: @DrJessHiggins
Website: drjessicahiggins.com
Email: [email protected]
If you have a topic you would like it to be discussed, please contact us by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.
Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.
Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.
Thank you!
*With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
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