Can you decide your worth or does the world define it for you?
In this episode, the conversation explores what it means to know you’re valuable, how to operate from that belief, and why peace can become a lifelong pursuit.

Coach Val J shares her story of growing up in a chaotic household, learning to listen for divine nudges, and eventually building a life grounded in purpose and inner peace. She explains how the phrase “I get to decide” shaped her coaching practice and personal healing. The dialogue reflects on the difference between being raised in dysfunction and choosing something different as an adult, especially in love and mindset.

Topics include

• the link between wealth and value

• spreading the good news when the relationship with God feels personal

• using words like “universe” and “infinite intelligence” while still believing in Jesus

• choosing how to interpret betrayal, disappointment, or uncertainty

• building consistency and identity as a content creator after years of hesitation

The game “Our Thought, Their Thought, or Remix” brings a new level of honesty to ideas like

• “Black people animated Jesus through the power of their own magic”

• “Morality is completely subjective”

• “Astrology is fake”

• “The physical church isn’t aligned with what the Bible actually says”

• “When the mom is crazy, she will be crazy”

Questions that come up
What happens when belief isn’t rooted in doctrine but experience?
How do we know we're operating in self-love and not just saying it?
Can someone have grown up in dysfunction and still be capable of healthy love?
How does timing protect us and shift our direction?

This episode is full of insight, warmth, and clarity. It honors the nuance between tradition and personal truth and makes space for conversations that don’t always have an easy label.

✦ About Coach Val J
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Offers: 1-on-1 coaching sessions, video teachings, self-help frameworks, daily content on mindset and peace