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Why Do We Self-Sabotage, & How Do We Stop?

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Summary
In this episode, Layla Dawn explores the concept of self-sabotage, delving into its psychological roots and offering practical strategies for overcoming it. She discusses how subconscious fears, childhood trauma, and limiting beliefs contribute to self-sabotaging behaviors. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and provides actionable steps to break the cycle of self-sabotage, including journaling, cognitive reframing, and celebrating small wins.
Takeaways
Self-sabotage is a subconscious attempt to protect oneself.
Common forms of self-sabotage include procrastination and perfectionism.
Fear of success can be as paralyzing as fear of failure.
Childhood trauma often leads to self-sabotaging patterns in adulthood.
Building self-awareness is crucial in identifying self-sabotage.
Cognitive reframing can help change negative thought patterns.
Celebrating small wins reinforces positive behavior.
Accountability partners can help maintain progress.
Journaling aids in recognizing and addressing self-sabotaging thoughts.
Overcoming self-sabotage is an ongoing journey, not a one-time fix.
Sound Bites
"Celebrate your wins."
"Be your own hype man."
"You're not broken."
Chapters
00:00 Understanding Self-Sabotage
06:33 The Roots of Self-Sabotage
14:10 Overcoming Self-Sabotage
25:43 Practical Steps to Break the Cycle
Links

Celebrate = https://youtu.be/ZV3S2kHEHvg?si=syklPupeFcoS1SYb

Change = https://youtu.be/W3k8Xu8Pd5I?si=5jwGva-BMYrT1NF_

Negative Thoughts = https://youtu.be/ZV3S2kHEHvg?si=l4091QZPqyvB0Ejn

Imposter Syndrome = https://youtu.be/fnLkrGVJ-U0?si=VG5EPEo_SVZZ0nUG

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Content provided by Life Coach Layla. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Life Coach Layla or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Summary
In this episode, Layla Dawn explores the concept of self-sabotage, delving into its psychological roots and offering practical strategies for overcoming it. She discusses how subconscious fears, childhood trauma, and limiting beliefs contribute to self-sabotaging behaviors. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and provides actionable steps to break the cycle of self-sabotage, including journaling, cognitive reframing, and celebrating small wins.
Takeaways
Self-sabotage is a subconscious attempt to protect oneself.
Common forms of self-sabotage include procrastination and perfectionism.
Fear of success can be as paralyzing as fear of failure.
Childhood trauma often leads to self-sabotaging patterns in adulthood.
Building self-awareness is crucial in identifying self-sabotage.
Cognitive reframing can help change negative thought patterns.
Celebrating small wins reinforces positive behavior.
Accountability partners can help maintain progress.
Journaling aids in recognizing and addressing self-sabotaging thoughts.
Overcoming self-sabotage is an ongoing journey, not a one-time fix.
Sound Bites
"Celebrate your wins."
"Be your own hype man."
"You're not broken."
Chapters
00:00 Understanding Self-Sabotage
06:33 The Roots of Self-Sabotage
14:10 Overcoming Self-Sabotage
25:43 Practical Steps to Break the Cycle
Links

Celebrate = https://youtu.be/ZV3S2kHEHvg?si=syklPupeFcoS1SYb

Change = https://youtu.be/W3k8Xu8Pd5I?si=5jwGva-BMYrT1NF_

Negative Thoughts = https://youtu.be/ZV3S2kHEHvg?si=l4091QZPqyvB0Ejn

Imposter Syndrome = https://youtu.be/fnLkrGVJ-U0?si=VG5EPEo_SVZZ0nUG

Send us a text

Support the show

Do Life Website

www.layladawndoeslife.com

Certified Life and Business Coaching

Calendly - Layla Dawn

https://calendly.com/layladawndoeslife

Lumivitae Bottle

https://layla7859158384984.lumivitae.com

Join My Lumivitae Team

https://layla7859158384984.lumivitae.com/register

Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087296620862

LinkedIn

https://www.linkedin.com/in/layladawn/?lipi=urn%3Ali%3Apage%3Ad_flagship3_feed%3BPgTMeoJKSceLs9UXfCGN6g%3D%3D

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