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Adrienne Abiodun: Part 2. Overcoming generational shame.

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Adrienne talks about how she discovered that the black man listed as the father on her grandfather's birth certificate was a lie but instead was a white man named James Moffett from 1924 segregated Mississippi; working through generational shame, anger and pain about her slave owning white ancestry; her grandfather's connection to Revolutionary War patriots; the story of how the family of George Leighton, son of her Revolutionary War ancestor Samuel Leighton, in Massachusetts, wrote him off because he married into a slave owning family in Mississippi; connecting with white relatives who shared stories of her Revolutionary War lineage; informing the leader of the Connecticut State Society Daughters of the American Revolution that they share ancestry with Revolutionary War patriot James Collins and subsequently being invited to be the keynote speaker at the state conference during which Adrienne presented their mixed race family connection; using DNA to help point toward more record sets; the variations in DNA connections versus genetic heritage versus traditional paper research; Commander James Collins's Revolutionary War service and his letter scolding the British; joining the DAR by a white Moffett cousin providing an affidavit of family relation for her application in support of his Y-DNA test results; amending her grandfather's death certificate to name his true father; giving herself permission to explore her own history; potentially caring for the gravesites of the family of her ancestor's enslavers; her brother joining The Society of the Cincinnati; taking leadership roles within the Children of the American Revolution and Daughters of the American Revolution; assisting members with DNA lineage research. Read Adrienne’s biography at www.daughterdialogues.com/daughters
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Chapters

1. Adrienne Abiodun: Part 2. Overcoming generational shame. (00:00:00)

2. Lies on grandfather's birth certificate from 1924 segregated Mississippi, black father listed but biological father was a white man James Moffett (00:00:47)

3. Grandfather's connection to Revolutionary War patriots (00:02:50)

4. George Leighton, son of Revolutionary War ancestor Samuel Leighton- family in MA wrote him off because he married into a slave owning family in MS (00:03:48)

5. Working through generational shame, anger and pain about slave owing white ancestry (00:04:50)

6. Connection to Revolutionary War patriot ancestor James Collins (00:06:17)

7. Connecting with white relatives who shared stories of Revolutionary War lineage (00:08:22)

8. Informing leader of CT state DAR that they share ancestry with James Collins, being invited to present the mixed race relationship to CT state DAR (00:09:30)

9. Presenting Revolutionary War lineage to DAR CT state society. Using DNA to help point toward more record sets. DNA connection vs. genetic heritage vs. paper research. (00:14:16)

10. Commander James Collins's Revolutionary War service (00:16:54)

11. Brother joining The Society of the Cincinnati (00:17:56)

12. Commander James Collins's letter scolding the British (00:19:52)

13. Contrast of James Collins's humanity vs. his grandson George's decision to marry into a family of enslavers (00:21:46)

14. Samuel Leighton's Revolutionary War service (00:23:38)

15. Joining the DAR, white cousin acknowledging her black grandfather as his uncle and taking Y-DNA test to prove connection to her black grandfather (00:23:59)

16. Reaching out to a white Moffett cousin, requesting Y DNA test to prove connection to her black grandfather (00:25:57)

17. Uncle and cousin providing affidavits of family relation on her DAR application in support of DNA evidence (00:27:44)

18. Amending grandfather's death certificate to name his true father (00:29:27)

19. Emotions about descending from an ancestor who contributed to founding of U.S., giving self permission to explore own history (00:31:31)

20. Experience as a member of DAR, reconciling society's past, potentially caring for gravesites of the family of ancestor's enslavers (00:34:12)

21. Taking leadership roles with the C.A.R. and DAR, assisting members with DNA lineage research (00:40:59)

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Adrienne talks about how she discovered that the black man listed as the father on her grandfather's birth certificate was a lie but instead was a white man named James Moffett from 1924 segregated Mississippi; working through generational shame, anger and pain about her slave owning white ancestry; her grandfather's connection to Revolutionary War patriots; the story of how the family of George Leighton, son of her Revolutionary War ancestor Samuel Leighton, in Massachusetts, wrote him off because he married into a slave owning family in Mississippi; connecting with white relatives who shared stories of her Revolutionary War lineage; informing the leader of the Connecticut State Society Daughters of the American Revolution that they share ancestry with Revolutionary War patriot James Collins and subsequently being invited to be the keynote speaker at the state conference during which Adrienne presented their mixed race family connection; using DNA to help point toward more record sets; the variations in DNA connections versus genetic heritage versus traditional paper research; Commander James Collins's Revolutionary War service and his letter scolding the British; joining the DAR by a white Moffett cousin providing an affidavit of family relation for her application in support of his Y-DNA test results; amending her grandfather's death certificate to name his true father; giving herself permission to explore her own history; potentially caring for the gravesites of the family of her ancestor's enslavers; her brother joining The Society of the Cincinnati; taking leadership roles within the Children of the American Revolution and Daughters of the American Revolution; assisting members with DNA lineage research. Read Adrienne’s biography at www.daughterdialogues.com/daughters
Subscribe to the newsletter at www.daughterdialogues.com
Follow us @DaughterDialogs on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Adrienne Abiodun: Part 2. Overcoming generational shame. (00:00:00)

2. Lies on grandfather's birth certificate from 1924 segregated Mississippi, black father listed but biological father was a white man James Moffett (00:00:47)

3. Grandfather's connection to Revolutionary War patriots (00:02:50)

4. George Leighton, son of Revolutionary War ancestor Samuel Leighton- family in MA wrote him off because he married into a slave owning family in MS (00:03:48)

5. Working through generational shame, anger and pain about slave owing white ancestry (00:04:50)

6. Connection to Revolutionary War patriot ancestor James Collins (00:06:17)

7. Connecting with white relatives who shared stories of Revolutionary War lineage (00:08:22)

8. Informing leader of CT state DAR that they share ancestry with James Collins, being invited to present the mixed race relationship to CT state DAR (00:09:30)

9. Presenting Revolutionary War lineage to DAR CT state society. Using DNA to help point toward more record sets. DNA connection vs. genetic heritage vs. paper research. (00:14:16)

10. Commander James Collins's Revolutionary War service (00:16:54)

11. Brother joining The Society of the Cincinnati (00:17:56)

12. Commander James Collins's letter scolding the British (00:19:52)

13. Contrast of James Collins's humanity vs. his grandson George's decision to marry into a family of enslavers (00:21:46)

14. Samuel Leighton's Revolutionary War service (00:23:38)

15. Joining the DAR, white cousin acknowledging her black grandfather as his uncle and taking Y-DNA test to prove connection to her black grandfather (00:23:59)

16. Reaching out to a white Moffett cousin, requesting Y DNA test to prove connection to her black grandfather (00:25:57)

17. Uncle and cousin providing affidavits of family relation on her DAR application in support of DNA evidence (00:27:44)

18. Amending grandfather's death certificate to name his true father (00:29:27)

19. Emotions about descending from an ancestor who contributed to founding of U.S., giving self permission to explore own history (00:31:31)

20. Experience as a member of DAR, reconciling society's past, potentially caring for gravesites of the family of ancestor's enslavers (00:34:12)

21. Taking leadership roles with the C.A.R. and DAR, assisting members with DNA lineage research (00:40:59)

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