The moment a doctor diagnoses your child with an incurable cancer marks a dividing line in life—everything that came before, and everything that follows. For our family, learning about Richy's alveolar soft part sarcoma transformed our world completely. But what emerged from that devastating news was a remarkable nine-year journey that taught us profound lessons about living in the face of death.
This raw, emotional episode chronicles Richy's story—from his ambitious plans for studying in China and building a future, to the painful reality of clinical trials, increasing limitations, and eventually hospice care. Yet through it all runs a powerful thread of determination. When faced with his diagnosis, Richy embodied the line from Shawshank Redemption: "You either get busy living or get busy dying." He chose living, continuing to travel to national parks, Disney World, and numerous adventures with his beloved dog Lexi by his side.
What makes this story extraordinary isn't just Richy's courage in facing terminal illness, but the peace and purpose he maintained throughout. Despite excruciating pain from treatments and the cancer itself, "you never heard him complain." Even as his body failed him, his spirit remained strong—culminating in his decision to be baptized during the pandemic, surrounded by family and friends in a deeply moving ceremony.
The true heart of this podcast, however, lies beyond Richy's passing in June 2020. How does a family continue after such profound loss? How do we keep someone's memory alive for future generations? Nearly five years later, we're sharing our ongoing journey of grief, healing, and finding unexpected joy in remembering. Because while losing a child creates an irreplaceable void, we've discovered that hope persists—and that honoring a loved one's memory can become a powerful foundation for moving forward.
If you're walking through grief or supporting someone who is, this series offers not just our story, but practical insights on navigating life after devastating loss. Because even in our darkest moments, there remains the possibility of light breaking through.