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Why Quid Pro Quo Love Fails and What Builds Trust Instead

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We use our boys’ everyday squabbles as a mirror for adult dynamics: both sides telling true events, but interpreting the events completely different. From there, we lay out three lessons that change the tone of a relationship. First, love isn’t a contract (quid pro quo); connection can’t be leveraged without corroding trust. Second, assume your partner’s best and verify the worst with clear questions instead of silent verdicts. Third, practice empathy with accountability—context matters, and so do boundaries.
Get your copy or audiobook of Too Tired to Fight today!: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/059371427X

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Get your copy or audiobook of Too Tired to Fight today!: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/059371427X

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Chapters

1. Road Trip Magic: “The Stuff” (00:00:00)

2. Kids’ Fights as a Mirror for Couples (00:02:40)

3. Hurt Shapes Interpretation (00:07:35)

4. Why Quid Pro Quo Love Fails (00:10:55)

5. Stress, Capacity, and Attachment Wounds (00:15:05)

6. Ad Break: Conflict-to-Connection & Coaching (00:17:55)

7. Three Core Lessons of Loving Relationships (00:18:40)

8. Avoidant vs Anxious: Self-Protection Styles (00:24:20)

9. When Trust Erodes: Big Events and Stack-Ups (00:28:45)

10. Practical Path: Awareness, Learning, Choice (00:33:00)

11. Closing Reflections & Credits (00:34:10)

113 episodes

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Manage episode 513540836 series 3379723
Content provided by Dr. Stephen Mitchell and Erin Mitchell, MACP, Dr. Stephen Mitchell, Erin Mitchell, and MACP. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Dr. Stephen Mitchell and Erin Mitchell, MACP, Dr. Stephen Mitchell, Erin Mitchell, and MACP or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Got a question, comment, or just want to drop some encouragement? Send us a text.

We use our boys’ everyday squabbles as a mirror for adult dynamics: both sides telling true events, but interpreting the events completely different. From there, we lay out three lessons that change the tone of a relationship. First, love isn’t a contract (quid pro quo); connection can’t be leveraged without corroding trust. Second, assume your partner’s best and verify the worst with clear questions instead of silent verdicts. Third, practice empathy with accountability—context matters, and so do boundaries.
Get your copy or audiobook of Too Tired to Fight today!: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/059371427X

Want some personalized help. Schedule a free coaching consultation here: https://calendly.com/ccfp/meet-the-mitchells

Get your copy or audiobook of Too Tired to Fight today!: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/059371427X

Want some personalized help. Schedule a free coaching consultation here: https://calendly.com/ccfp/meet-the-mitchells

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Road Trip Magic: “The Stuff” (00:00:00)

2. Kids’ Fights as a Mirror for Couples (00:02:40)

3. Hurt Shapes Interpretation (00:07:35)

4. Why Quid Pro Quo Love Fails (00:10:55)

5. Stress, Capacity, and Attachment Wounds (00:15:05)

6. Ad Break: Conflict-to-Connection & Coaching (00:17:55)

7. Three Core Lessons of Loving Relationships (00:18:40)

8. Avoidant vs Anxious: Self-Protection Styles (00:24:20)

9. When Trust Erodes: Big Events and Stack-Ups (00:28:45)

10. Practical Path: Awareness, Learning, Choice (00:33:00)

11. Closing Reflections & Credits (00:34:10)

113 episodes

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