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9 | I Did Everything For Her…So Why Weren’t We Close?

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Content provided by Terri Lee - Kingdom Communication Coach & Podcast Coach for Christian Women, Terri Lee - Kingdom Communication Coach, and Podcast Coach for Christian Women. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Terri Lee - Kingdom Communication Coach & Podcast Coach for Christian Women, Terri Lee - Kingdom Communication Coach, and Podcast Coach for Christian Women or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Have you ever looked around your home—your schedule, your sacrifices—and wondered: Why don’t we feel close?

Why does it still feel distant, despite everything I’ve done “right”?

In this heartfelt episode, Terri Lee shares a powerful and deeply personal story about her oldest daughter, Bre—and the quiet unraveling that can happen when we spend years doing for our kids, but not truly being with them.

From tantrums she didn’t know how to handle, to a homemade coupon book left unused, this episode walks you through the slow realization that presence and emotional availability—not productivity—are what truly build connection.

You’ll walk away with:

  • The surprising truth about what your teen’s “disrespect” or withdrawal might really be saying
  • The difference between parenting with love and parenting from connection
  • The moment that changed Terri’s relationship with her daughter forever
  • A journaling prompt and reflection practice you can try this week

If you’ve ever whispered, “I gave her everything… so why doesn’t she come to me?”—this episode is for you.

✔️ Reflection Homework:

This week, pause in one moment where you’re tempted to manage, fix, or correct—and choose connection instead.

✨ Ask: What would it look like to show up WITH my child instead of just FOR them?

🖊 Journaling Prompt:

“What distortion of connection am I ready to surrender, so I can begin showing up with my child instead of just for them?”

💛 Want more support?

You don’t have to figure this out alone—come be part of a community of moms walking this road together.

✨ Join the FB Community: www.facebook.com/groups/connectwithyourteens/

✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider: https://riseabovethesilence.com/opt-in-connect-with-your-teens-insider-newsletter

✨ Follow on Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach

✨ Contact: [email protected]

💬 Leave a Review

If this episode gave you hope, would you take a minute to leave a written review?

Your words help more moms find the connection they’ve been craving.

📝 Leave a review here

  continue reading

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Content provided by Terri Lee - Kingdom Communication Coach & Podcast Coach for Christian Women, Terri Lee - Kingdom Communication Coach, and Podcast Coach for Christian Women. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Terri Lee - Kingdom Communication Coach & Podcast Coach for Christian Women, Terri Lee - Kingdom Communication Coach, and Podcast Coach for Christian Women or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Have you ever looked around your home—your schedule, your sacrifices—and wondered: Why don’t we feel close?

Why does it still feel distant, despite everything I’ve done “right”?

In this heartfelt episode, Terri Lee shares a powerful and deeply personal story about her oldest daughter, Bre—and the quiet unraveling that can happen when we spend years doing for our kids, but not truly being with them.

From tantrums she didn’t know how to handle, to a homemade coupon book left unused, this episode walks you through the slow realization that presence and emotional availability—not productivity—are what truly build connection.

You’ll walk away with:

  • The surprising truth about what your teen’s “disrespect” or withdrawal might really be saying
  • The difference between parenting with love and parenting from connection
  • The moment that changed Terri’s relationship with her daughter forever
  • A journaling prompt and reflection practice you can try this week

If you’ve ever whispered, “I gave her everything… so why doesn’t she come to me?”—this episode is for you.

✔️ Reflection Homework:

This week, pause in one moment where you’re tempted to manage, fix, or correct—and choose connection instead.

✨ Ask: What would it look like to show up WITH my child instead of just FOR them?

🖊 Journaling Prompt:

“What distortion of connection am I ready to surrender, so I can begin showing up with my child instead of just for them?”

💛 Want more support?

You don’t have to figure this out alone—come be part of a community of moms walking this road together.

✨ Join the FB Community: www.facebook.com/groups/connectwithyourteens/

✨ Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider: https://riseabovethesilence.com/opt-in-connect-with-your-teens-insider-newsletter

✨ Follow on Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach

✨ Contact: [email protected]

💬 Leave a Review

If this episode gave you hope, would you take a minute to leave a written review?

Your words help more moms find the connection they’ve been craving.

📝 Leave a review here

  continue reading

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