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Ep #169 Rewards Are Just Polite Punishments—Here’s What Works Better I Riffing On My Book (4)
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🤯 What if everything you thought about rewards was BACKWARDS?
Remember that sticker chart gathering dust on your fridge? Those M&Ms you keep in your pocket for "emergencies"? That screen time you dangle like a carrot?
Yeah... about that.
In this mind-blowing episode, I'm unpacking:
✨ The Kentucky Study That Broke My Brain: 72 nine-year-olds proved rewards make kids WORSE at tasks (not better!)
✨ The Popsicle Meltdown Story: How I turned my nephew's epic tantrum into giggles in 10 minutes (without bribes OR consequences)
✨ Why Your Kid CAN'T Calm Down: It's neuroscience. (And telling them to "calm down" is like pouring gas on a fire)
✨ The University Secret: Why college students took 50% LONGER when offered money (I know, WHAT?!)
🎯 KEY TAKEAWAYS:
- Rewards kill intrinsic motivation (Alfie Kohn was RIGHT)
- Your tantruming toddler isn't giving you a hard time—they're HAVING a hard time
- Connection works faster than correction (every. single. time.)
- Play is the most underused parenting superpower
💡 THE MOMENT THAT CHANGED EVERYTHING: Picture this: Family reunion. 20+ kids. One screaming 3-year-old nephew rejecting his FAVORITE popsicle. Every adult is stressed. And then... I tried something different.
No timeout. No bribe. Just a swing under a pine tree and some silly games.
The result? Pure magic.
👉 YOUR HOMEWORK: Next time your kid melts down, skip the consequences. Try connection instead. Get low, make eye contact, and see if they'll play.
Then come tell me what happened on Youtube @connectmethodparenting
Want more game-changing parenting truth bombs?
- 📚 Grab my book "Connect Method Parenting" https://cmp.works/cmpbook
- 🎧 Binge the podcast, we're dismantling parenting myths one episode at a time https://cmp.works/apc
- 💪 Ready to transform your parenting? Check out Pivot at https://cmp.works/thepivot
Because here's the truth: You can't spoil a child with too much of what they NEED (connection). You spoil them with too much of what they WANT (stuff).
TIMESTAMPS:
- [0:00] The reward myth that's ruining everything
- [2:15] The 1961 study that shocked researchers
- [5:30] Why "calm down" is the WORST thing to say
- [8:45] The Popsicle Meltdown (you have to hear this)
- [12:00] The swing that changed everything
- [15:30] What kids REALLY need (hint: not stickers)
Next Steps: Leave a review if you've been enjoying the CMP Podcast
My Book: https://cmp.works/1xs
My IG: https://cmp.works/ista
185 episodes
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🤯 What if everything you thought about rewards was BACKWARDS?
Remember that sticker chart gathering dust on your fridge? Those M&Ms you keep in your pocket for "emergencies"? That screen time you dangle like a carrot?
Yeah... about that.
In this mind-blowing episode, I'm unpacking:
✨ The Kentucky Study That Broke My Brain: 72 nine-year-olds proved rewards make kids WORSE at tasks (not better!)
✨ The Popsicle Meltdown Story: How I turned my nephew's epic tantrum into giggles in 10 minutes (without bribes OR consequences)
✨ Why Your Kid CAN'T Calm Down: It's neuroscience. (And telling them to "calm down" is like pouring gas on a fire)
✨ The University Secret: Why college students took 50% LONGER when offered money (I know, WHAT?!)
🎯 KEY TAKEAWAYS:
- Rewards kill intrinsic motivation (Alfie Kohn was RIGHT)
- Your tantruming toddler isn't giving you a hard time—they're HAVING a hard time
- Connection works faster than correction (every. single. time.)
- Play is the most underused parenting superpower
💡 THE MOMENT THAT CHANGED EVERYTHING: Picture this: Family reunion. 20+ kids. One screaming 3-year-old nephew rejecting his FAVORITE popsicle. Every adult is stressed. And then... I tried something different.
No timeout. No bribe. Just a swing under a pine tree and some silly games.
The result? Pure magic.
👉 YOUR HOMEWORK: Next time your kid melts down, skip the consequences. Try connection instead. Get low, make eye contact, and see if they'll play.
Then come tell me what happened on Youtube @connectmethodparenting
Want more game-changing parenting truth bombs?
- 📚 Grab my book "Connect Method Parenting" https://cmp.works/cmpbook
- 🎧 Binge the podcast, we're dismantling parenting myths one episode at a time https://cmp.works/apc
- 💪 Ready to transform your parenting? Check out Pivot at https://cmp.works/thepivot
Because here's the truth: You can't spoil a child with too much of what they NEED (connection). You spoil them with too much of what they WANT (stuff).
TIMESTAMPS:
- [0:00] The reward myth that's ruining everything
- [2:15] The 1961 study that shocked researchers
- [5:30] Why "calm down" is the WORST thing to say
- [8:45] The Popsicle Meltdown (you have to hear this)
- [12:00] The swing that changed everything
- [15:30] What kids REALLY need (hint: not stickers)
Next Steps: Leave a review if you've been enjoying the CMP Podcast
My Book: https://cmp.works/1xs
My IG: https://cmp.works/ista
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Christian mom or dad, could you use some encouragement and support? Put your ear buds in for this Christian parenting podcast and get practical, faith-based inspiration through all stages of parenting — raising toddlers, navigating the school-age years, preparing for puberty, and seeing your teen soar with confidence. Hosted by Danny Huerta, in every 8 to 15 minute episode, you’ll hear parenting experts share Biblical truths, effective parenting techniques, and useful resources that will hel ...
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In the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting approach, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics. Janet is a parenting author and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. ...
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continue reading
Jim Bacarro and Saab Magalona started one of the first local podcasts back in 2018. From debates about trashy reality shows to talking about the importance of voter registration, they have cultivated quite an engaged community who have dubbed them their /podparents/. Jim and Saab may be the ones doing the talking but they definitely make their listeners feel heard. If you're interested in collaborating with our podcast through brand partnerships, advertisements or other collabs, please send ...
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Don’t miss this thought-provoking podcast series with authors Monica and Michael Berg. Together, they’ll answer your most pressing questions, offering sage advice for the modern world. Self-proclaimed Change Junkie, Monica Berg is an author and teacher who lectures internationally. Michael Berg is a rabbi and Aramaic scholar who has published almost 20 books on the teachings of Kabbalah. This husband and wife team has been sharing kabbalistic wisdom and relationship expertise with students f ...
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continue reading
If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too! New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe! Instagram: @goodmoms_badcho ...
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