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why women are saying NO to MEN
Manage episode 502338760 series 2508796
✨ mental health • feminism • community living • relationships ✨
In today’s episode we’re diving headfirst into the big messy questions: what does it mean to build a life outside of men and outside of society’s “timeline”?
I break down the Bird’s Nest community (a women-only living space where companionship > coupledom), the rise of the 4B movement in South Korea (spoiler: no men, no marriage, no babies, no problem?), and how timeline grief sneaks up on us when we realize we’re not living the script we were handed.
We’ll talk money (aka financial independence = freedom), self-discovery, and why reinvention at literally ANY age is not only allowed, it’s necessary. Plus: I got featured in the Wall Street Journal (!!) so yeah, we’re celebrating that too.
🔑 takeaways:
- Community living is changing the way women think about love + support
- The 4B movement is feminism… turned up to 11
- “Timeline grief” is real, but it doesn’t have to own you
- Financial independence = the sexiest thing you can give yourself
- Reinvention is always on the table
🕒 chapters:
00:00 Intro
04:34 Bird’s Nest Community
12:50 The Dynamics of Male Relationships
17:40 4B Movement: A Feminist Stance
25:10 Timeline Grief + Personal Reflection
32:48 Financial Independence + Future Planning
💬 Drop me a comment if you’ve ever felt timeline grief, if you’d move into a Bird’s Nest house, or if you’re secretly (or not so secretly) 4B curious.
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
321 episodes
Manage episode 502338760 series 2508796
✨ mental health • feminism • community living • relationships ✨
In today’s episode we’re diving headfirst into the big messy questions: what does it mean to build a life outside of men and outside of society’s “timeline”?
I break down the Bird’s Nest community (a women-only living space where companionship > coupledom), the rise of the 4B movement in South Korea (spoiler: no men, no marriage, no babies, no problem?), and how timeline grief sneaks up on us when we realize we’re not living the script we were handed.
We’ll talk money (aka financial independence = freedom), self-discovery, and why reinvention at literally ANY age is not only allowed, it’s necessary. Plus: I got featured in the Wall Street Journal (!!) so yeah, we’re celebrating that too.
🔑 takeaways:
- Community living is changing the way women think about love + support
- The 4B movement is feminism… turned up to 11
- “Timeline grief” is real, but it doesn’t have to own you
- Financial independence = the sexiest thing you can give yourself
- Reinvention is always on the table
🕒 chapters:
00:00 Intro
04:34 Bird’s Nest Community
12:50 The Dynamics of Male Relationships
17:40 4B Movement: A Feminist Stance
25:10 Timeline Grief + Personal Reflection
32:48 Financial Independence + Future Planning
💬 Drop me a comment if you’ve ever felt timeline grief, if you’d move into a Bird’s Nest house, or if you’re secretly (or not so secretly) 4B curious.
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
321 episodes
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