In this conversation, Michelle sits down with speaker, podcaster, and creator of the Raising Wild Hearts podcast, Ryann Watkin, to unpack the tug-of-war between strength and softness that every mom of complex kids knows too well. Together, they explore how to step out of “CEO of the household” mode and reconnect with the feminine energy that fuels joy, love, and true presence at home.

Ryann shares:

• When strength becomes survival. From high-achieving career woman to maxed-out mom, Ryann opens up about hitting burnout when her “go, go, go” energy clashed with motherhood’s demands.
• The moment she hit rock bottom. How the split between masculine drive and feminine nurture left her depleted—and what it took to begin her healing journey.
• Embodiment in real life. Why asking yourself “Can I feel my legs?” was the first surprising step to grounding, slowing down, and reconnecting with her body.
• Turning off ‘boss mode.’ Practical shifts—like saying “What do you think, love? I trust you”—that invite your partner to step up and give you space to soften.
• The control/safety loop. Why moms of complex kids grip so tightly to schedules and responsibilities, and how learning to release just two “rocks from the backpack” can transform family balance.
• Happiness isn’t “when.” Ryann’s wisdom for every overwhelmed mom: stop waiting for someday. Joy is possible here, even in the mess and the therapy appointments.

Quote to tape on the fridge:
“Happier moms raise happier kids. Don’t wait for things to ease up—be here now, be happy now.”

Whether you’re juggling IEP meetings, medical appointments, or just trying to make dinner without barking orders, Ryann’s message is clear: reclaiming your feminine energy isn’t about weakness—it’s about resilience, presence, and love.

👤 About Ryann Watkin
Ryann Watkin is a creative professional speaker and podcaster devoted to creating a better world for future generations. Known for her insightful questions and engaging wit, she empowers individuals to share messages of resilience and joy. She is the host of Raising Wild Hearts, a globally recognized top 5% podcast exploring the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and relationships.

🔗 Connect with Ryann & Raising Wild Hearts
Instagram: @raisingwildhearts
Facebook: Raising Wild Hearts
LinkedIn: Ryann Watkin
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