In this week’s episode of Coffee Unlimited with J & D, Janelle and Danielle open up about the real, unpolished truths of long-term relationships.

With over two decades of marriage each, they reflect on how their expectations have shifted—from wanting to be placed on a pedestal to learning that love is built in everyday actions, patience, and presence. They share candid stories about jealousy, airport pickups, romance novel expectations, and how communication styles can either create friction or build resilience.

Drawing on personal anecdotes and metaphors (including a rainbow of love that evolves from passion to depth), Janelle and Danielle remind us that relationships aren’t static. They grow, transform, and require us to let go of perfection while embracing the many colors of companionship.