Every coach has faced that subtle tension “Am I doing enough for my client?” or “Should I feel responsible if they don’t act?” In this episode, we unpack the delicate balance between care and over-responsibility in coaching.

Coaches often enter the profession because they genuinely want to help people grow. Yet that same empathy can quietly lead to blurred boundaries, such as extending sessions, feeling guilty about charging fees for cancellations, or taking on the client’s motivation as your own. Drawing on the ICF and EMCC Codes of Ethics, this episode explores what true professional responsibility means and what it doesn’t.
You’ll hear about:

• Common ways coaches unintentionally take on too much responsibility;
• What professional codes actually say about coach and client responsibilities;
• How over-functioning affects the coaching relationship and client agency;
• Practical ways to stay grounded and trust the coaching process.

If you’ve ever hesitated to remind a client of an agreement, felt guilty enforcing boundaries, or wondered how to hold care and professionalism at once, this episode is for you.
We also touch on the inner work behind these dynamics: self-trust, validation, and the fear of not being “enough.” At its heart, sustainable coaching isn’t about doing more, but about doing what’s ours.
If this conversation resonates, share it with another coach who might need the reminder that caring deeply doesn’t mean carrying the client.
Coming up next:

In the next episode, we’ll shift from what happens in sessions to the outer structure of your coaching business and various business models. We’ll look at how to design coaching engagements and fee structures that honor your time, reflect your values, and create clarity for clients from the start.

You might find this useful:

Episode 15 “Three-Party Agreements”: https://upthinkcoachingpodcast.podbean.com/e/three-party-agreements-coaching-in-organizations/

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