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They Thought You Would Wait Forever
Manage episode 483538878 series 2936430
They thought you’d wait forever.
They thought you’d stay in place.
That you’d stay loyal no matter how long they disappeared.
That you’d be available whenever — if they ever changed their mind.
And for a while… maybe they were right.
But something changed. You didn’t just wait. You grew. You got quiet. You got stronger. And now… they don’t know where you stand. And that uncertainty? It’s doing something they never expected — it’s making them feel your absence.
In this episode, Coach Lee breaks down the powerful shift that happens when you stop chasing, stop reaching out, and stop holding space for someone who walked away. It’s not about giving up — it’s about stepping back in a way that forces your ex to face the silence, the loss, and the consequences of their decision.
You’ll learn:
Why openly waiting after a breakup actually keeps your ex emotionally comfortable and uninterested
How true emotional distance triggers curiosity, doubt, and even longing in the mind of your ex
What role ego plays in making them assume you’ll always be there — and what happens when that assumption shatters
The difference between stepping back with power vs. using it as a tactic (and how your intent affects the outcome)
What to do if they do reach out — how to handle that moment with composure and strength, instead of rushing back into the same dynamic
This episode is about helping you reclaim your dignity and emotional clarity — not as a strategy to manipulate your ex, but as a way to create real conditions for their regret and reconsideration. Because when you stop acting like you're waiting forever… it becomes clear to them that your love wasn't unconditional—it was respectful, but it required reciprocity.
If you're currently wondering how long to wait, what to do next, or whether your ex will even notice you're gone, Coach Lee shares the mindset and actions that can help you move forward — either toward reconciliation, or peace.
Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back at ReunionBlueprint.com.
📞 Want to talk directly with Coach Lee about your specific situation?
You can book a one-on-one coaching session at:
👉 https://myexbackcoach.com
Because you deserve more than false hope.
You deserve clarity.
And your ex? They may have thought you'd wait forever… but they were wrong.
Also, get help for your marriage problems at MarriageRadio.com
135 episodes
Manage episode 483538878 series 2936430
They thought you’d wait forever.
They thought you’d stay in place.
That you’d stay loyal no matter how long they disappeared.
That you’d be available whenever — if they ever changed their mind.
And for a while… maybe they were right.
But something changed. You didn’t just wait. You grew. You got quiet. You got stronger. And now… they don’t know where you stand. And that uncertainty? It’s doing something they never expected — it’s making them feel your absence.
In this episode, Coach Lee breaks down the powerful shift that happens when you stop chasing, stop reaching out, and stop holding space for someone who walked away. It’s not about giving up — it’s about stepping back in a way that forces your ex to face the silence, the loss, and the consequences of their decision.
You’ll learn:
Why openly waiting after a breakup actually keeps your ex emotionally comfortable and uninterested
How true emotional distance triggers curiosity, doubt, and even longing in the mind of your ex
What role ego plays in making them assume you’ll always be there — and what happens when that assumption shatters
The difference between stepping back with power vs. using it as a tactic (and how your intent affects the outcome)
What to do if they do reach out — how to handle that moment with composure and strength, instead of rushing back into the same dynamic
This episode is about helping you reclaim your dignity and emotional clarity — not as a strategy to manipulate your ex, but as a way to create real conditions for their regret and reconsideration. Because when you stop acting like you're waiting forever… it becomes clear to them that your love wasn't unconditional—it was respectful, but it required reciprocity.
If you're currently wondering how long to wait, what to do next, or whether your ex will even notice you're gone, Coach Lee shares the mindset and actions that can help you move forward — either toward reconciliation, or peace.
Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint to get your ex back at ReunionBlueprint.com.
📞 Want to talk directly with Coach Lee about your specific situation?
You can book a one-on-one coaching session at:
👉 https://myexbackcoach.com
Because you deserve more than false hope.
You deserve clarity.
And your ex? They may have thought you'd wait forever… but they were wrong.
Also, get help for your marriage problems at MarriageRadio.com
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