TW: This episode discusses potentially distressing topics such as sexism and related topics (e.g., harassment or assault)

Why does sexism still feel so damn relentless in 2024? In this episode of But Why: Real talk on messy minds and messier systems, psychologists Kristin and Laura unpack ambivalent sexism — the sneaky blend of benevolent and hostile sexism that keeps gender roles tightly in place. With vulnerability, rage, humour, and research, they explore how we internalize misogyny, the emotional labour of calling it out, and why being “too much” is still punishable.

They also take a personal deep dive: when should you challenge sexism, and when is it safer to stay quiet? Whether you’re new to feminist thought or just need someone to validate your rage, this one’s for you.