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Creating Calm Part 1: Regulate First, Reason Later

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We unpack how regulation, not compliance, drives real change and why the brain’s state decides whether a child can listen, connect, and learn. We share tools for co-regulation, decode hyperarousal and dissociation, and show how to move from chaos to cortex with simple, steady steps.
• defining regulation as the capacity to regain control and act with intent
• differences between regulation and compliance
• arousal continuum from calm to terror linked to brain regions
• state-dependent functioning and why language fails in survival mode
• hyperarousal versus dissociation and how both block learning
• regulate, relate, reason as a practical sequence
• rhythmic, repetitive, patterned activities that soothe the lower brain
• mirror neurons, co-regulation, and caregiver self-checks
• trauma, sensory overload, and environmental tweaks that help
• behavior as communication and the power of snacks, water, and movement
• spotting re-regulation and building a personal toolbox
• honoring processing styles and using timed check-ins
Contact:
[email protected]
To Donate:
https://secure.calfarley.org/site/Donation2?3358.donation=form1&df_id=3358&mfc_pref=T
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https://apply.workable.com/cal-farleys-boys-ranch/j/25E1226091/
For More Information about Cal Farley's Boys Ranch:
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Music:
"Shine" -Newsboys
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Chapters

1. Welcome And Today’s Big Topic (00:00:00)

2. What Regulation Really Means (00:00:31)

3. Regulation vs Compliance (00:03:59)

4. Arousal Continuum Explained (00:04:35)

5. State-Dependent Functioning (00:06:00)

6. Hyperarousal And Dissociation (00:08:01)

7. Common Misreads Of Behavior (00:10:00)

8. Why “Calm Down” Doesn’t Work (00:12:05)

9. Regulate, Relate, Reason Framework (00:14:20)

10. Co-Regulation And Mirror Neurons (00:17:00)

11. Checking Your Own State (00:19:35)

12. Trauma And Sensory Overload (00:21:48)

13. Behavior As Communication (00:24:00)

14. Signs Of Re-Regulation (00:26:05)

15. Processing Styles And Space (00:28:00)

16. Boundaries, Check-Ins, And Closing (00:30:20)

116 episodes

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Content provided by Cal Farley's. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Cal Farley's or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

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We unpack how regulation, not compliance, drives real change and why the brain’s state decides whether a child can listen, connect, and learn. We share tools for co-regulation, decode hyperarousal and dissociation, and show how to move from chaos to cortex with simple, steady steps.
• defining regulation as the capacity to regain control and act with intent
• differences between regulation and compliance
• arousal continuum from calm to terror linked to brain regions
• state-dependent functioning and why language fails in survival mode
• hyperarousal versus dissociation and how both block learning
• regulate, relate, reason as a practical sequence
• rhythmic, repetitive, patterned activities that soothe the lower brain
• mirror neurons, co-regulation, and caregiver self-checks
• trauma, sensory overload, and environmental tweaks that help
• behavior as communication and the power of snacks, water, and movement
• spotting re-regulation and building a personal toolbox
• honoring processing styles and using timed check-ins
Contact:
[email protected]
To Donate:
https://secure.calfarley.org/site/Donation2?3358.donation=form1&df_id=3358&mfc_pref=T
To Apply:
https://apply.workable.com/cal-farleys-boys-ranch/j/25E1226091/
For More Information about Cal Farley's Boys Ranch:
https://www.calfarley.org/
Music:
"Shine" -Newsboys
CCS License No. 9402

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Welcome And Today’s Big Topic (00:00:00)

2. What Regulation Really Means (00:00:31)

3. Regulation vs Compliance (00:03:59)

4. Arousal Continuum Explained (00:04:35)

5. State-Dependent Functioning (00:06:00)

6. Hyperarousal And Dissociation (00:08:01)

7. Common Misreads Of Behavior (00:10:00)

8. Why “Calm Down” Doesn’t Work (00:12:05)

9. Regulate, Relate, Reason Framework (00:14:20)

10. Co-Regulation And Mirror Neurons (00:17:00)

11. Checking Your Own State (00:19:35)

12. Trauma And Sensory Overload (00:21:48)

13. Behavior As Communication (00:24:00)

14. Signs Of Re-Regulation (00:26:05)

15. Processing Styles And Space (00:28:00)

16. Boundaries, Check-Ins, And Closing (00:30:20)

116 episodes

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