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266. Milam Miller | he Charisma Craft: A Modern Leadership Guide to Enhance Your "Rizz" Factor

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Join us for ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BookThinkers LIVE 2025⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Happening November 9, 2025!

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In today’s episode, we have the pleasure to interview Milam Miller, author of The Charisma Craft: A Modern Leadership Guide to Enhance Your "Rizz" Factor.

Milam is a keynote speaker, leadership coach, and sales performance consultant who’s been described by clients as “the real-life Ted Lasso.” Over his career in sports and entertainment, he negotiated more than $100 million in commercial revenue, but it was his passion for soft skills and human connection that led him to launch BCK – Be Confident and Kind, a movement helping leaders create stronger teams and drive better results.

In this episode, you’ll learn why charisma is not a personality trait but a craft you can develop, how to balance confidence with kindness to influence others authentically, and why boldness and curiosity are the currencies of modern leadership.

We hope you enjoy this incredible conversation with Milam Miller.

To Learn More about Milam and buy his book visit:

The Book: https://a.co/d/0VCA5uk

Website/Socials:

https://beconfidentandkind.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/milam-miller-bck/

https://www.instagram.com/milam.miller

Chapters:

0:00 Intro

1:32 Charisma and rizz: The way to connect on the human level

4:30 Nick's & Milam's biggest charisma role-model

7:25 The value of charisma as an asset in the age of AI

13:38 The growth mindset & 3 ways to improve your communication skills

18:17 Kindness, warmth and competence

20:02 Having a customer centric mindset

22:47 Milam's experience selling toilets

27:38 Personal development and charisma

29:42 Ted Lasso as a charisma case study

33:44 Serena Williams as a boldness and charisma case study

36:42 Asking yourself: How can I be brave and more bold?

40:04 Where to connect with Milam, his work and his book

41:28 To be interesting, be interested

42:17 Practical lesson: remember people's names

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Join us for ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BookThinkers LIVE 2025⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Happening November 9, 2025!

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bookthinkers.com/book-thinkers-live-2025

In today’s episode, we have the pleasure to interview Milam Miller, author of The Charisma Craft: A Modern Leadership Guide to Enhance Your "Rizz" Factor.

Milam is a keynote speaker, leadership coach, and sales performance consultant who’s been described by clients as “the real-life Ted Lasso.” Over his career in sports and entertainment, he negotiated more than $100 million in commercial revenue, but it was his passion for soft skills and human connection that led him to launch BCK – Be Confident and Kind, a movement helping leaders create stronger teams and drive better results.

In this episode, you’ll learn why charisma is not a personality trait but a craft you can develop, how to balance confidence with kindness to influence others authentically, and why boldness and curiosity are the currencies of modern leadership.

We hope you enjoy this incredible conversation with Milam Miller.

To Learn More about Milam and buy his book visit:

The Book: https://a.co/d/0VCA5uk

Website/Socials:

https://beconfidentandkind.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/milam-miller-bck/

https://www.instagram.com/milam.miller

Chapters:

0:00 Intro

1:32 Charisma and rizz: The way to connect on the human level

4:30 Nick's & Milam's biggest charisma role-model

7:25 The value of charisma as an asset in the age of AI

13:38 The growth mindset & 3 ways to improve your communication skills

18:17 Kindness, warmth and competence

20:02 Having a customer centric mindset

22:47 Milam's experience selling toilets

27:38 Personal development and charisma

29:42 Ted Lasso as a charisma case study

33:44 Serena Williams as a boldness and charisma case study

36:42 Asking yourself: How can I be brave and more bold?

40:04 Where to connect with Milam, his work and his book

41:28 To be interesting, be interested

42:17 Practical lesson: remember people's names

________________________________________________

Join the world's largest non-fiction Book community!

https://www.instagram.com/bookthinkers/

The purpose of this podcast is to connect you, the listener, with new books, new mentors, and new resources that will help you achieve more and live better. Each and every episode will feature one of the world's top authors so that you know each and every time you tune-in, there is something valuable to learn. If you have any recommendations for guests, please DM them to us on Instagram. (www.instagram.com/bookthinkers)

If you enjoyed this show, please consider leaving a review. It takes less than 60-seconds of your time, and really makes a difference when I am trying to land new guests. For more BookThinkers content, check out our Instagram or our website. Thank you for your time!

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