In this engaging episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, host Aisha teams up with Safara, a 28-year-old single mom by choice, to delve into the intricacies of using a known donor. They cover crucial topics such as finding the right donor, red flags to look out for, and the importance of thorough vetting. Safara shares her personal experiences, including the significance of open communication and the flexibility needed in these arrangements. They also touch on the legal aspects and the emotional considerations of being a single mother by choice in the Black community. Don't miss this insightful conversation! Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join our mailing list.

00:00 Introduction to Black Single Mothers by Choice

00:50 Meet Safara: A Single Mom by Choice

01:09 Finding a Known Donor: Tips and Experiences

01:45 Red Flags and Important Questions for Donors

02:27 Navigating Donor Websites and Apps

03:01 Personal Stories: Choosing the Right Donor

06:43 The Importance of STD Testing

08:30 Co-Parenting vs. Single Mother by Choice

12:22 Legal Considerations and Contracts

15:33 Final Thoughts and Contact Information