What happens when 5 men drop their guards and speak honestly about faith, failure, and finding their way? In this special live roundtable celebrating one year of the Be Tempered podcast, hosts Dan Schmidt & Ben Spahr reunites with previous guests Brian Ballenger, Matt Roberts, and Shawn Ruebush for a raw, unfiltered conversation about the journey to authentic manhood.
The wisdom flows as these men reflect on pivotal moments when faith became personal rather than inherited. Sean's admission that it took him 38 years to make peace with God resonates deeply, especially when he shares that "no matter how far away you walk from God, it only takes one step back in." Brian recounts feeling completely exposed when he first truly encountered God's presence, while Matt discusses how consistency in faith practices transformed his life.
The conversation turns remarkably practical when discussing leadership through failure. These men reject the notion that leaders must appear perfect, instead embracing failure as essential feedback for growth. "Failure is good," Sean asserts, "because it means you're taking risks and putting yourself out there." Their collective wisdom about coaching their own children, maintaining meaningful male friendships, and leading families through tough seasons offers invaluable guidance for listeners facing similar challenges.
Perhaps most powerful is the discussion about male vulnerability. Brian acknowledges the pressure men feel to project strength, noting "I can't be vulnerable because I have to be strong." Yet all agree that authentic male friendship requires breaking down these barriers to find true connection and accountability. The story of Sean being challenged to practice the discipline he preaches illustrates how genuine friendship sometimes means uncomfortable honesty.
Whether you're questioning your faith, struggling with leadership responsibilities, or simply seeking deeper connections with other men, this anniversary episode delivers authentic conversation from men who've walked through fire and emerged stronger, wiser, and more compassionate. Subscribe now and join our community of listeners pursuing balance in a chaotic world.

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