Ep 23: Can We Parent Without Shame? With Elisabeth Harrod Be A Happier Parent podcast

Ep 23: Can We Parent Without Shame? With Elisabeth Harrod

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Keywords

parenting, emotional regulation, shame, child development, dads, moms, self-worth, mistakes, gender dynamics, coaching

Summary

In this conversation, Elisabeth and Alex explore the dynamics of parenting, particularly focusing on the unique challenges and perspectives of dads. They discuss the importance of emotional regulation, the impact of shame on parenting, and the necessity of allowing children to learn from their mistakes. The conversation also delves into gender dynamics in parenting roles and the significance of fostering self-worth in children, emphasizing the need for parents to support their children while also allowing them the space to grow and learn independently.

Takeaways

Elisabeth connects more easily with men than women.
Parental expectations can create shame in children.
Ending shame involves replacing it with acceptance.
Emotional regulation is crucial for children.
Parents often do too much for their children.
Children need to learn from their mistakes.
Gender dynamics influence parenting styles.
Self-worth is essential for children's development.
Parents' egos can be tied to their children's outcomes.
Teaching children to solve their own problems fosters independence.

Titles

Connecting with Dads: A Unique Perspective
Understanding Parental Expectations and Child Development

Sound bites

"I connect more easily with men."
"This is creating shame."
"You can do it."

Chapters

00:00 Connecting with Dads: The Podcast Journey
06:04 Understanding Parenting Expectations and Shame
10:48 Collaborative Parenting: Meeting Children Where They Are
11:40 The Role of Shame in Parenting
16:25 Emotional Regulation: Teaching Kids to Express Feelings
21:36 Gender Differences in Emotional Expression
27:22 The Impact of Control on Children's Learning
31:13 Leveraging Children's Interests for Connection
32:33 The Reality of Parenting Expectations
34:54 Guilt, Shame, and the Dark Side of Parenting
36:00 Navigating Teenage Independence
41:34 The Balance of Nurturing and Independence
43:14 Fearless Parenting: Letting Go
46:28 The Role of Fathers in Parenting
47:38 Transitioning from Boys to Men
51:01 Empowering Problem Solving in Children
52:49 Navigating Shame and Self-Worth