Dominance Done Right: The Practical Guide to Being a Better Dom
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Are you looking to deepen your understanding and practice of BDSM leadership? "Dominance Done Right" is your essential guide to mastering the art of being a truly effective Dom in the bedroom
This podcast dives into the core principles of dominance, emphasising that it's about leading with certainty and calm control, not about faking confidence or arrogance
We explore how true confidence stems from clarity – knowing what you want to do and how you want your partner to feel
Key topics covered include:
Mindset First: Learn how to own the role of a Dom without simply pretending, focusing on genuine leadership rather than just acting
Comprehensive Consent: Beyond just a disclaimer, understand the nuances of consent from pre-scene negotiation, including discussing limits and safe words, to ongoing check-ins during play and thoughtful aftercare consent
Practical Dominance Techniques: Discover effective physical control methods such as intentional hand use (grabbing the jaw, guiding by the neck, pinning wrists gently), precise positioning, and the powerful impact of eye contact and silence
. Master voice and language by lowering your tone, speaking slowly with intent, and using impactful commands and affirmations like "Good girl/boy" or "You don't come until I say"
Tools & Props: Get guidance on introducing tools and props, starting with simple items like blindfolds and paddles, and progressing to more advanced gear like spreaders and cuffs, always advising to introduce one new item at a time with precision
Psychological Dominance: Unlock the true power of dominance through anticipation, teasing, and the dynamic of denial and reward. Learn to use ownership language like "That's my body now"
Aftercare as Dominance: Understand that aftercare is an integral part of the dominant experience, covering essential check-ins, comforting touch, and providing space for decompression
Sample Scene Flow & Practice Phrases: Walk through a complete scene flow from negotiation to aftercare, and gain valuable practice phrases for setting the tone, guiding during play, psychological teasing, and reassuring aftercare
This podcast encourages a practice-oriented approach, emphasising that confidence builds through consistency and adaptability
. You'll learn to read your partner's body and not apologise for leading, building your skills intentionally rather than striving for immediate perfection.
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