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How Fatherhood Changed My Life (and Saved My Soul)
Manage episode 511391571 series 3352669
The fights are loud; the fixes are quiet. We open with a hard look at how Catholics talk about the Pope—prudence vs. fear, why “seamless garment” rhetoric detonates in trad circles, and what we learned from mistakes under Francis. Then the conversation drops from theory to battle: a sudden wave of despair, the urge to relapse, and the shock of deliverance prayers that cut through the darkness in minutes. No theatrics. Just binding, sealing, and mercy that holds.
From there, we trace the slow road back to reverence. A wife resists the Latin Mass, refuses a veil, and breaks into tears mid-liturgia; a father stops arguing and starts praying the rosary with his kids; families watch baptism in the old rite wake up something deep and ancient. We ask why anyone would restrict the one thing setting young hearts on fire—and we name motives without denying the spiritual stakes. Outrage is easy; building is harder. So we get practical: chant where you can, add vespers, catechize at home when programs fail, invite a Novus Ordo friend to High Mass and lunch for four Sundays in a row.
Callers sharpen the edges. When does venting become gossip? How do you start a Catholic channel without becoming an apologist clone? What lines do you draw around invalid marriages when little eyes are watching? We offer simple rules that keep charity intact: love widely, scandal never, and let the holiness of your home do the talking. We also face Canada’s euthanasia slide and what real honor for aging parents looks like when it hurts.
Along the way, we detour through Augustine, Israel, and typology—not as trivia, but as ballast for the soul. If you’re tired of online shots and hungry for what actually works—deliverance, confession, Latin Mass, fatherhood that keeps its vows—this is your map back to clarity.
If this resonates, share it with a friend, subscribe for more honest conversations, and leave a review to help others find the show. Then tell us: what will you build this week?
Take advantage of Recusant Cellar's "Christ the King" sale by heading over to https://recusantcellars.com/ and using code "REXCAELORUM" for 20% off at checkout!
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Chapters
1. Bishops, Banter, and a Pope-sized Shadow (00:00:00)
2. Holding Fire on Leo: Prudence or Fear? (00:04:30)
3. How We Talk About the Pope Matters (00:10:45)
4. Seamless Garment and Trads’ Powder Keg (00:17:20)
5. What Didn’t Work Under Francis (00:23:40)
6. Father Dan Rehill, Spiritual Warfare, Masculinity (00:28:20)
7. Suicidal Temptation and Deliverance Prayers (00:35:00)
8. Conversion Threads: Rosary, Fathers, Eucharist (00:43:20)
9. Marriage, Mixed Communions, Returning to Tradition (00:51:30)
10. Latin Mass Resistance, Tears, and Breakthroughs (00:59:20)
11. Community, Children, and Culture at TLM (01:07:50)
12. Why Restrict Tradition? Motives and Fallout (01:16:10)
13. Caller Lines Open: Work, Gossip, and Grit (01:23:20)
14. Starting Catholic Media Without Selling Out (01:31:30)
15. Building Reverence in a Novus Ordo (01:38:00)
16. Rural TLM Outreach: Invite and Break Bread (01:44:50)
17. Canada’s MAiD and a Culture of Death (01:52:10)
18. Family Duty, Aging Parents, and Honor (02:00:30)
19. Young Vocations, Schools, and Paths Forward (02:08:40)
20. Handling Invalid Marriages in the Family (02:16:30)
21. Bastardy, Natural Marriage, and Grace (02:24:10)
524 episodes
Manage episode 511391571 series 3352669
The fights are loud; the fixes are quiet. We open with a hard look at how Catholics talk about the Pope—prudence vs. fear, why “seamless garment” rhetoric detonates in trad circles, and what we learned from mistakes under Francis. Then the conversation drops from theory to battle: a sudden wave of despair, the urge to relapse, and the shock of deliverance prayers that cut through the darkness in minutes. No theatrics. Just binding, sealing, and mercy that holds.
From there, we trace the slow road back to reverence. A wife resists the Latin Mass, refuses a veil, and breaks into tears mid-liturgia; a father stops arguing and starts praying the rosary with his kids; families watch baptism in the old rite wake up something deep and ancient. We ask why anyone would restrict the one thing setting young hearts on fire—and we name motives without denying the spiritual stakes. Outrage is easy; building is harder. So we get practical: chant where you can, add vespers, catechize at home when programs fail, invite a Novus Ordo friend to High Mass and lunch for four Sundays in a row.
Callers sharpen the edges. When does venting become gossip? How do you start a Catholic channel without becoming an apologist clone? What lines do you draw around invalid marriages when little eyes are watching? We offer simple rules that keep charity intact: love widely, scandal never, and let the holiness of your home do the talking. We also face Canada’s euthanasia slide and what real honor for aging parents looks like when it hurts.
Along the way, we detour through Augustine, Israel, and typology—not as trivia, but as ballast for the soul. If you’re tired of online shots and hungry for what actually works—deliverance, confession, Latin Mass, fatherhood that keeps its vows—this is your map back to clarity.
If this resonates, share it with a friend, subscribe for more honest conversations, and leave a review to help others find the show. Then tell us: what will you build this week?
Take advantage of Recusant Cellar's "Christ the King" sale by heading over to https://recusantcellars.com/ and using code "REXCAELORUM" for 20% off at checkout!
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Please subscribe! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKsxnv80ByFV4OGvt_kImjQ?sub_confirmation=1
https://www.avoidingbabylon.com
Merchandise: https://avoiding-babylon-shop.fourthwall.com
Locals Community: https://avoidingbabylon.locals.com
Full Premium/Locals Shows on Audio Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1987412/subscribe
RSS Feed for Podcast Apps: https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/1987412.rss
Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/AvoidingBabylon
Chapters
1. Bishops, Banter, and a Pope-sized Shadow (00:00:00)
2. Holding Fire on Leo: Prudence or Fear? (00:04:30)
3. How We Talk About the Pope Matters (00:10:45)
4. Seamless Garment and Trads’ Powder Keg (00:17:20)
5. What Didn’t Work Under Francis (00:23:40)
6. Father Dan Rehill, Spiritual Warfare, Masculinity (00:28:20)
7. Suicidal Temptation and Deliverance Prayers (00:35:00)
8. Conversion Threads: Rosary, Fathers, Eucharist (00:43:20)
9. Marriage, Mixed Communions, Returning to Tradition (00:51:30)
10. Latin Mass Resistance, Tears, and Breakthroughs (00:59:20)
11. Community, Children, and Culture at TLM (01:07:50)
12. Why Restrict Tradition? Motives and Fallout (01:16:10)
13. Caller Lines Open: Work, Gossip, and Grit (01:23:20)
14. Starting Catholic Media Without Selling Out (01:31:30)
15. Building Reverence in a Novus Ordo (01:38:00)
16. Rural TLM Outreach: Invite and Break Bread (01:44:50)
17. Canada’s MAiD and a Culture of Death (01:52:10)
18. Family Duty, Aging Parents, and Honor (02:00:30)
19. Young Vocations, Schools, and Paths Forward (02:08:40)
20. Handling Invalid Marriages in the Family (02:16:30)
21. Bastardy, Natural Marriage, and Grace (02:24:10)
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