57: Breaking Free from Shame--How Guilt Fuels Addiction and Triggers Relapse

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Shame is one of the most dangerous emotions in early recovery. It replays past mistakes, whispers that change is impossible, and often pushes people toward relapse. In this conversation, Steven T. Ginsburg explains how shame becomes “the toolbox of the enemy,” trapping people in cycles of unworthiness.

He highlights the importance of confronting our “old stat sheets”—the mental records of past failures—and introduces the 10th step as a powerful “shame buster.” By taking responsibility and making amends in real time, we prevent guilt from building up and fueling destructive patterns.

Steven emphasizes the need to separate identity from past actions, reminding listeners that “who we are is not who we were and not who we’re going to be.” Recovery isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress, whether the struggle is with substances, pornography, or other behaviors.

At Restore Detox Centers, love replaces shame as the guiding principle. “We don’t shoot our wounded,” Steven says. Instead, setbacks are met with compassion, helping clients understand what happened and find their way back to recovery. This environment allows authentic healing and helps people believe they are worthy of sobriety.

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Chapters

1. Shame as a Relapse Trigger (00:00:00)

2. Guilt as a Warning System (00:02:39)

3. Breaking Continuous Negative Patterns (00:06:10)

4. Love Overcomes Shame at Restore (00:10:10)

5. Progress Not Perfection (00:15:20)

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