In Numbers 11, the Israelites whined about God’s provision, longing for the food of their slavery instead of giving thanks for their freedom. Like them, we often choose complaint over gratitude. An old farmer once said he felt ashamed comparing his wealth to his grandfather’s thankfulness in poverty. Gratitude costs nothing, yet we give it so rarely. Start small—thank a loved one, thank God. You’ll bless others and yourself. Don’t let ingratitude define you.