Identity is the story we tell ourselves and others. Belief is revealed by how we act. In this episode, we explore the tension between expressed identity and lived belief, and how Masonry challenges us to move beyond social labels toward a truer alignment. The conversation invites us to reflect on where our behaviors speak louder than our self-concepts.

🔑 Key Takeaways

• Identity is often expressed through stories and social tags, but may not reflect lived reality
• Beliefs are demonstrated through behavior, not just declared in words or symbols
• Masonic work demands aligning identity, belief, and action within the circle of integrity

💬 Featured Quotes

• 0:00:00 – “I want to start today’s episode with some insight into the relationship between our identity and our beliefs and our behaviors.”
• 0:00:08 – “Identity is expressed… a narrative of a story we tell ourselves about the way we are or the way we appear in the world.”
• 0:00:20 – “That identity oftentimes will get shorthanded by social tags… the political tagging of liberal, conservative, Democrat, Republican.”
• 0:00:33 – “That shorthand, that tagging that we use as identity politics is oftentimes used to help us identify where we fit in a crowd.”

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Creators & Guests

• Brian Mattocks - Host