The Mental Offload podcast is the podcast for women who want to excel as leaders without sacrificing a fulfilling life. Whether you’re struggling with imposter syndrome and perfectionism at work, mom guilt, or the overwhlem of the mental load of parenthood, the Mental Offload podcast offers both evidence-based strategies and real-world strategies for high-achieving women. Combining business leadership, feminism, and coaching tools, we’ll have important conversations about passions, prioritie ...
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Our home is a reflection of our internal experience. When we’re feeling frazzled, busy, and overworked, it shows up all around us as cluttered spaces, overcommitted schedules, and judgment that we’re never doing enough. This podcast aims to tidy up all the clutter that has you spinning in circles. If you’re a woman with a to-do list, running one household (or more!), or caring for others, this podcast is for you. We will go beyond the basics of home organization to talk about why a clutter-f ...
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Any way you slice it, Back-to-School is a sprint. The extra load?! It’s real. And working mothers typically feel it extra hard. And yet, there can be an unhelpful temptation the moment that back-to-school week is over…to immediately jump back into “real life”, without a moment to recover. This will leave you spent. And contributes to burnout. You m…
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You’ve been angling for a promotion. And it should be yours. You’ve got strong results. Good performance reviews. You get along with your colleagues. And yet…that promotion still hasn’t come. What’s going on here? Is it bias? A boss who’s not advocating for you? Some hidden secret handshake you haven’t mastered? Let me be clear: You’re probably not…
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You’re presenting your big recommendation. You’ve prepped. You’ve practiced. You’ve got the room’s attention. And then… Someone pushes back. Challenges your approach. Questions your recommendation. Suddenly, you find yourself on the back foot. Nervous. Stammering. Feeling defensive. But unable to defend yourself well. I see this same pattern with s…
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5 Key Times to Rethink your Personal Brand and Executive Presence
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31:20Even the most capable leaders fall into this trap: You evolve professionally—get promoted, shift roles, step into a new organization—but keep showing up the same way you always have. You end up trusted for execution. Valued for your solid judgment. Respected for your work ethic. But still, something’s off. You’re not quite getting the traction you …
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There’s no sugar-coating it. Most jobs are relentless. Even greedy. You’re not imagining it. It’s very real. (In fact, Claudia Goldin won the 2023 Nobel Prize in Economics for her work highlighting the impact of demanding jobs on the careers and earnings of women.) One potential solution: going part-time. For many women, this is the holy grail of w…
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If you’re a working mother with a demanding job, you’ve probably asked yourself: Is this sustainable? Am I doing enough? How do successful moms make this all work? One journalist has some answers to share. This week, I’m joined by Joann Lublin, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist, Wall Street Journal contributor, and author of Power Moms: How Executi…
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As kids finish off the school year, I’m looking back in awe how much they’ve grown and accomplished this year. And then, the proud reverie is interrupted. It’s like a split screen where I see my own stalled progress. And feel a giant ugh in the pit of my stomach. I see the goals I meant to prioritize this year — consistent exercise, healthier meals…
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How to Beat Burnout as a Working Mom with Lori Oberbroeckling
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31:09From the outside, it probably looks like you’re doing it all—and doing it well. You’ve checked all the boxes: crushing it at work, holding things down at home, maybe even taking on a volunteer project or two. But on the inside? You might be asking yourself: How much longer can I keep going like this? In this week’s episode of The Mental Offload, I …
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Go getters always manage to get it done. But for some of you, it’s often “just in the nick of time”. Are you jumping from one last-minute push to the next late-night sprint? Have you convinced yourself that this is simply the cost of being successful, high-achieving, and in demand? I know, I know. You want to focus on the result: you’re meeting dea…
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Nervous System Regulation (Part 2), with Jane Pilger
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22:45If you've ever found yourself trying to stay calm in a heated meeting—or keeping your cool with a tantruming child—you know: try harder is not the answer. In this week’s episode of The Mental Offload, I continue my powerful conversation with nervous system expert Jane Pilger. We dive deep into how you can regulate your nervous system—and help other…
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Nervous System Regulation (Part 1), with Jane Pilger
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38:03As working mothers and high achievers, we are trained to keep pushing through—no matter the cost. On top of that, you’ve probably been told at some point that the best way to be taken seriously as a woman in leadership is not to show any emotion. That can lead you to keep pushing down your emotions. But those pesky emotions often refuse to be silen…
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You start the week with a color-coded calendar, clear priorities, and the best intentions. But by Wednesday, things are already going off the rails. You’re already working through lunch, but you’re about 4 tasks behind where you intended to be. Loads of high-achievers get sucked in by the same culprit: Magical schedule thinking. Magical schedule th…
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Preparing for a Mid-Level Management Job Interview
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37:06When’s the last time you interviewed for a job? Maybe it’s been a few years. Or even a few promotions ago. If so, you need to know that the interview game evolves as your career evolves. At the mid-to-senior level, interviews are no longer about proving you’re a go-getter who can do anything. As you get more senior, interviews are about something d…
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Ever catch yourself spiraling with frustration after a tense meeting... and think, “Why didn’t I stop myself sooner?” Or maybe you’re trying to create an exercise habit, and find yourself skipping out most of the time. You’re not alone. And these “fails” don’t actually mean you’re failing. As women who are used to crushing big goals — especially th…
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Dealing with Difficult Colleagues: The Underminer
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15:34Ever had a colleague who keeps cutting you out of the loop? They conveniently “forget” to invite you to key meetings. They drop you from email chains. Or withhold information that you need to do your best work. Some of them do this so subtly, you may even start to doubt whether they do it on purpose. But regardless, it’s beyond frustrating. It’s im…
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We’re living through a historic backlash against women and minorities. You don’t have to live in the US to feel it. Global companies are rolling back DE&I initiatives. Executives are promoting a “work harder and be in the office” ethos. And there’s the subtle insinuation that working mothers should be grateful for any flexibility we’re given at wor…
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If you work in a hybrid environment, you know some things are easier: Less time spent commuting. Fewer interruptions. The ability to pop a load of laundry in. But hybrid work also presents its own difficulties, like: How do I get the right visibility for my work? How can I show strong executive presence over Zoom? How can I build relationships with…
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Cinderella syndrome is the ultimate corporate fairy tale. The belief that if you do your work perfectly, take on more responsibilities without complaint... ...one day, Prince Charming (aka a powerful leader in your company) will discover your talent and rescue you. With the glass slipper of a promotion in hand. Women have been fed a version of this…
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Have you ever looked at your life—your job, your routines, maybe even your entire identity—and thought, I want to hit the reset button? That feeling isn’t a crisis. It’s a calling. To reinvent yourself. But that word, reinvention, comes with some baggage. We’re taught that our careers (and lives!) should follow a linear path. Get the job, climb the…
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Have you ever been so good at what you do that you somehow ended up with all the work? At the office, everyone needs you to proofread the documents before they go to the client. At home, everyone asks you where to find things. Or how to book a dentist appointment. You’re the safety net, the problem solver, the one who ensures things don’t fall apar…
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Working parents are in crisis right now. And at the root of it? Systems that penalize working parents, by pretending that we still live in societies where one parent (usually the mother) is on call at home. Childcare in the US is a prime example of this. It costs as much as a second mortgage. The waitlists are ridiculous. And that’s assuming you do…
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Most people think time, money, or energy is their most valuable asset. But what if the real key to success and ease is something else? There’s something even more critical—and most of us are running dangerously low on it. That resource is bandwidth. Bandwidth is the combination of your time and mental capacity. It’s what allows you to make good dec…
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As the year starts, most people are thinking about new goals and activities to add to their calendars. I’m thinking about what to subtract. It sounds a little bit radical. But what if the real key to thriving isn’t adding more stuff to your plate, but subtracting? In this week’s episode of The Mental Offload Podcast, I discuss how subtraction creat…
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Does the thought of walking into a room full of strangers and “working the crowd” make you want to head for the exit? I’m with you. Networking often feels like it’s designed for extroverts: loud conversations, endless small talk, and nonstop people-ing. If you’re an introvert, the traditional advice can feel exhausting and even shame-inducing. You’…
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Have you ever been in the presence of someone with undeniable charisma? They have this magnetic energy that makes people stop and follow their lead. It might seem like a gift they were born with. But what if I told you charisma isn’t magic? Charisma is a skill. And like any skill, it can be developed. In this week’s episode of The Mental Offload Po…
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Are you earning what you’re capable of—and what you truly want to earn? For many women, the answer is no. We stay stuck in patterns of underearning for reasons that feel outside our control: “This is just what my job pays.” “I need flexibility, so I can’t ask for more.” “I’d have to work so much harder to make more—and I can’t.” But what if there’s…
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Let’s face it: the idea of “work-life balance” is full of myths and half-truths. You’ve probably heard that you just need the right job, better boundaries, or a reduced schedule to find harmony. But if you’ve tried these solutions and still feel stretched thinner than your worst hair tie, it’s not a surprise. These changes alone won’t magically cre…
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When you have a lot on your plate, it’s tempting to give up on goals. We wake up, look at our bulging to-do list, and think: my only goal is to survive the next week. Or month. Or year. But when survival becomes the goal, it can be a trap. And our values are the way out. The truth is, traditional goal-setting can dig you deeper into burnout. We pil…
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Join me for a celebratory finale as we reach our 100th episode, marking the end of a transformative first season. 🎉Thank you. I appreciate you listening to the podcast, sharing, and taking the time to leave a comment and a review. I attribute much of the podcast's success to my amazing clients and listeners. To celebrate, I'm sharing a revised vers…
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Whether you’re looking at the business press, or the motivation quotes on Pinterest, you’ll often get a one-dimensional look at what it takes to be successful. “Go for GROWTH!” It’s so ingrained in our culture’s approach to success, that you can feel like a failure if you’re not constantly trying to achieve the Next Big Thing, personally or profess…
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As we approach the end of the year, it's the perfect time to pause and evaluate whether our actions align with our core values and priorities. In this episode we’ll explore why revisiting the past year through categories like family, health, and relationships, we gain insights into our true priorities and how this can aid in our decision of what we…
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Imagine if you could sit down with your future self—the version of you who has achieved your wildest dreams, overcome your biggest challenges, and is living your best life. What would that conversation be like? How would it transform the decisions you make today? Last month, we focused on the important relationships you have at home and at work. Bu…
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98 | Your Healthy Pelvis with Dr. Tanya Goodrich
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28:28Tune in for an enlightening and comforting conversation with Dr. Tanya Goodrich, a renowned expert in women's pelvic health. An often-overlooked topic, pelvic health plays a crucial role in women's well-being. With over 15 years of experience, Dr. Goodrich combines her unique background in dance and physical therapy to educate and empower women, ai…
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Executive Presence. Most leaders know it’s a powerful ingredient for success. It’s that bit of leadership sorcery that allows some to command a room, influence key decisions, and inspire confidence. You might be able to get ahead without it, but I don’t recommend trying! But can you actually develop executive presence? I’ve heard leaders describe i…
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Join in as I sit down with Tara Ryan, a passionate advocate for equity and care, who transitioned from a successful career in software sales to becoming a certified professional coach and activist for parents' rights. Tara shares her personal story, from her childhood fascination with organization to her current endeavors in helping organizations d…
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The holidays are supposed to be magical. But let's be honest – scrolling your picture-perfect instagram feed, you’re feeling overwhelmed and under-prepared. For working moms, the holidays often feel like a marathon of endless to-dos, "should-dos," and societal expectations. What if you could actually come through the holiday season feeling relaxed,…
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96 | Why the Professional Organizing Industry Exists with Dr. Carrie Lane
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39:27In our latest episode, we are thrilled to host Dr. Carrie Lane, a leading expert in American Studies, as she unveils the intriguing world of professional organizing. Her latest book, More Than Pretty Boxes: How the Rise of Professional Organizing Shows Us the Way We Work Isn't Working explores how this booming industry reflects the challenges of ou…
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You’re in a meeting. Half listening, half emailing. Suddenly, you hear your name. “What are your thoughts on the proposal?” Cue panic. If you’ve been caught multitasking, you know the sting. And if we’re being honest, most of us do it. At work, at home, everywhere in between. Because it feels like the only way to keep up. But here’s the truth: mult…
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Deciding what to eat can be the source of an enormous amount of mental clutter. Whether you're managing meals for yourself or an entire household, the seemingly simple question of "What's for dinner?" can carry a heavy load of assumptions and expectations. Join in as we explore strategies to shift meal planning from a burdensome task to an organize…
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You know the drill: You're in the car after a long day of meetings, mentally cycling through your to-do list and meal plan…but secretly wishing you could teleport to an island resort where you could finally relax. Sound familiar? You're not alone. Nearly ⅔-rds of working parents say they’re feeling burned out. Even the U.S. Surgeon General declarin…
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With the year-end fast approaching, it's the perfect time to explore a calendaring technique that can transform your approach to time management. In this action-packed episode, we’ll unpack the art of results oriented scheduling, a method designed to combat over-commitment and enhance productivity. This approach is not just about filling your sched…
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I’ll be honest, I had to unplug from the news this week. For many of us - not just in the US but around the world - the US election results were a blow to the causes we believe in. But I had to turn off the tv when the analysts started to weigh in on “what happened.” The sting of watching a powerful woman be dissected to see where she had “fallen s…
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Our latest episode explores why mental clutter goes hand in hand with physical clutter and how decluttering your wardrobe can lead to mental clarity and self-compassion. It’s a gentle reminder that our bodies are ever-changing, and that's perfectly normal. By accepting our bodies as they are, your attention is free to go elsewhere. Tune in to learn…
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Time to Take Back Your Brain with Kara Loewentheil
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38:43Picture this: a woman with multiple Ivy degrees, running a reproductive rights think tank in NYC, crushing it on paper... yet finding herself curled up under her desk, feeling like a failure. This was Kara Loewentheil before she discovered the truth about why so many brilliant women feel like they're never quite "enough." In this week's must-listen…
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92 | The Importance of Play and Movement with Karri Bowen-Poole
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39:46On this episode, we welcome Karri Bowen-Poole, the visionary founder of Smart Playrooms and Project Playroom. Karri shares her inspiring journey from a childhood influenced by a transformative teacher to becoming a pioneer in designing play spaces that nurture children's emotional well-being and creativity. Discover how her innovative approach to p…
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Menopause has long been a sort of taboo topic in the workplace. So it’s rare to see open discussion of the real-life impact menopause can have on our work, our leadership, and our sense of self. This is not just a conversation about hot flashes. Menopause and perimenopause—the years leading up to it—can disrupt sleep, focus, and mood, and even self…
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In our latest episode, we explore the intricacies of bravery, moving beyond the traditional hero archetype to uncover the everyday courage that exists within all of us. Bravery is often portrayed as the domain of superheroes and fearless leaders, but what if it's something much more accessible? What if it's about simply choosing to face each day wi…
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Here's a scene that plays out in offices everywhere: A talented woman sits down for her year-end career conversation. Her boss asks where she'd like to take her career next. Despite her quiet ambitions, she’s unsure how to respond. Eventually, she croaks out something like, “I’m open to a lot of different opportunities.” Which does zero to advance …
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In this week's episode, join me as I explore the transformative power of vulnerability. I am sharing my personal journey through a significant life transition, offering insights into how vulnerability can be a form of self-care and emotional wellness. Embracing vulnerability can also lead to personal growth and a more aligned life. By being open wi…
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We tend to think “getting rest” means simply getting more sleep, but what if there’s more to it? Most working moms know they should rest, but here’s the problem: we’re taught that rest only happens when everything else is done. The truth? That to-do list will never get down to the point where you feel entitled to rest. And putting off your need to …
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