Thought-provoking topics and discussions intended to uplift, encourage and motivate women from all walks of life. Join Life Coach Kara Barker along with other special guests for a time of inspiration and empowHERment.
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Kara Barker Podcasts
The "Real Love with Lonnie and Kara" podcast with Lonnie & Kara Barker is a fun-filled, informative and encouraging show designed to provide daily motivation and inspiration for our listeners with real, relevant and relatable topics on love, life and marriage and so much more.
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Investigative journalist and pop culture junkie Tess Barker, dives into the pop culture moments that have puzzled her for years. This addictive, informative and revelatory show dives features the deep research and first person reporting that helped her launch the #FreeBritney movement while co-hosting Britney's Gram. Each episode unpacks a moment in celebrity news that was misunderstood or intentionally covered up at the time. Part true crime, part comedy, part deconstructing pop culture tri ...
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Finding Cupid Radio is a modern day guide to surviving the dating world and life in general. Hosted by David Cruz, Author of the blog Finding Cupid, David and his guest?€™s help you navigate through the slips and spills of love, dating and relationships. The show also explores how to be a better person in life regardless of relationship status. Imagine if Oprah and Patti Stanger had a baby?€¦ it would be David! Every week, Finding Cupid interviews celebrity guests, singers, authors and frien ...
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A Creative's Journey w/ Baylee Faye Williams
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1:07:11Hello, hello, hello — hey beautiful people! Welcome back to The Hello MaximizHER Podcast! This episode is for every woman who’s ever felt her passion fade or her purpose pause. My guest today, Baylee Williams, is a singer, creative, and proud theater geek who’s as genre-fluid as they come — a true lover of all music and every way it connects us to …
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Talk to Me Nice: Pivoting Workplaces Toward Trust & Safety Episode w/ Minda Harts
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51:04🚨 Season 8 is BACK! 🚨 Go run and tell it….. we’re back with a new season and a new fire. We’re kicking things off with none other than Minda Harts, author of Talk to Me Nice: The Seven Trust Languages for a Better Workplace and a second-season fan favorite. She took a break from her book tour and movie, The Memo” promotion to just to chat with us a…
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Michael Jackson, Sean Diddy Combs, and the Man in the Middle
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43:32Two disgraced superstars. One man who acted for both as their head of security. Is it just a coincidence that a man named Fahim Muhammed played key roles in both Sean Diddy Comb’s and Michael Jackson’s life? Tess dives into the strange connection between the end of life and death of Michael Jackson, and the alleged litany of crimes committed by Sea…
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A judge has decided how long will Sean Combs will serve for the two counts of transportation for prostitution he’s been accused of. Here’s a look at the spectacle and ego that surrounded Combs’ Manhattan sentencing. Watch the full Combs sentencing hype video here. Follow Pop Mystery Pod on Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok @popmysterypod Pop Mystery P…
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Elevatorgate (with Lauren Smith and Rachel Smith)
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1:48:26The footage was silent, but it still felt like a shot heard round the world. The infamous leaked elevator security camera footage of Beyonce and Solange Knowles seemingly giving Jay Z his due is one of the most compelling moments in history. (According to this historian at least.) Joining Tess to unpack what actually went down that famous night aft…
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All of the Times Harrison Ford Has Crashed a Plane (with Jon Gabrus)
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1:00:47Harrison Ford is a long-time pilot. That doesn’t mean he’s a great one. The only thing perhaps more impressive than Harrison’s long acting resume is the number of times he’s managed to find himself involved in aviation incidents. How many times has this star come pummeling frim the heavens? And why does he keep going back? Joining Tess to talk thro…
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Lisa Left Eye Lopes Barbecues Her Some Shoes (with Ashley Ray)
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1:12:38TLC was the definitive girl group of the ‘90s. They dominated both the hip hop and pop music scenes. They were pioneers of feminist music and culture. Perhaps no member of TLC embodied the group’s independent ways more than Lisa Left Eye Lopes. After Lopes was charged with arson for setting the home she shared with her football player boyfriend on …
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A competitive plastic surgery reality show. Perhaps premise kind of sells itself. It certainly did in 2004, when 15 million people tuned in to watch this darkly comic trainwreck. How did “The Swan,” even happen? And, perhaps less puzzling, why? Joining Tess to navigate the wild west of 2004 reality TV is comic, actor, and writer Jackie Johnson (Nat…
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This timeline sucks, yes? This week, we’re doing something a little different, a quick time travel back to the world of September 15, 2003. Tess flips through an US Weekly from this glorious time, when Madonna and Britney had just kissed at the VMAs, Beyonce was just starting to go solo, and life was pretty good. Follow Pop Mystery Pod on Twitter, …
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Mariah and Mom’s Spaghetti (with Kara Luiz)
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48:08In part two of this Mariah tale, we get into the nitty gritty of what actually went down between Mariah Carey and Eminem. Did Mariah and Marshall Mathers actually date? Why is Eminem so obsessed with her? Was it all worth it, for us to get a music video of Mariah in drag as Eminem? We’ll say this - beware of all Detroit “touchdowns.” Joining Tess t…
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The Incarceration of Mimi (with Kara Luiz)
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53:46Mariah Carey is, in many ways, a definitive diva. She’s got the pipes, she’s got the style, and the attitude. Behind Mariah’s coy smile and wind blown curls, though, there is a person who has survived extraordinary circumstances. As Mariah Carey was blowing up as one of the most famous and successful recording artists in the world, she was living a…
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🎙 Season 7 Finale — The Bravery Blueprint Hosted by Kara Barker | The Hello MaximizHER Podcast Welcome to the final episode of Season 7 — and this one? It’s personal. In this solo season finale, Kara Barker gets all the way real about what it means to be brave in everyday life — not the loud, spotlight-stealing kind, but the kind that whispers, “I’…
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Everyone F—-ing Everyone in Fleetwood Mac (with Jackie Zebrokwski)
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1:11:13“Rumors,” is an apropos name for the dream of an album that was born of two and a half couples all sharing a tiny recording studio while actively doing all of the cocaine. Rumors, indeed, have long circulated that while Fleetwood Mac was creating its opus, each member was also actively destroying their lives. What really happened in those powder fi…
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Your Dream Ain’t Big Enough w/Dr. Monique Bruner
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1:06:47If your dream doesn’t make you pause… it ain’t big enough. In this real, refreshing conversation, Dr. Monique Bruner joins The Hello MaximizHER Podcast to talk about what it takes to dream audaciously—and why Black women must stop pushing rest to the side to prove their worth. This episode unpacks the truth: Rest is a right, not a luxury. We dive i…
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In the past few years, two big entertainment stories stand out as exceptionally shocking and horrifying: the wrongful conservatorship of Britney Spears, and the alleged large-scale sex trafficking syndicate of Sean Diddy Combs. It’s chilling then, to consider that both the business affairs of Sean Combs and Britney Spears were handled by the same b…
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Unmuted: Bravery, Stretch Seasons & Leading with Confidence w/Alaina Johnson
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49:01Let’s be real—using your voice isn’t always easy. Sometimes it costs you the room, the vibe, or even your peace. But staying silent? That costs way more. In this powerful episode of The Hello MaximizHER Podcast, we’re diving into what it truly means to lead during stretch seasons—the kind that grow you, challenge you, and call for courage even when…
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Sex and the Inequity (with MK Paulsen)
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1:20:18“Sex and the City,” did more than usher in the ‘golden’ era of HBO. It created characters that endeared themselves to countless viewers with their depth, relatability, and deeply enviable wardrobes. Despite the fact that this is a show about friends and friendship, however, rumors have persisted for years that a long-standing feud exists between tw…
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Human(ing) Well with Amber Cabral: Rest, Equity, and the Courage to Adjust
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1:08:45In this transformative episode of The Hello MaximizHer Podcast, Kara Barker sits down with Amber Cabral—author, speaker, award-winning strategist, and host of the Human(ing) Well Podcast—for a deeply honest conversation about the hidden cost of pushing through, the necessity of rest, and what it truly means to honor your humanity while still leadin…
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La Veneno: Queen of the Late Night  (with Tamara Yajia)
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59:55“La Veneno,” aka Cristina Ortiz Rodriguez, was a tour de force and a revolutionary. She delivered jokes flawlessly, covered her nipples barely, and changed the way Spain viewed trans people. Joining Tess to talk through the legendary life and mysterious death of Cristina Ortiz Rodriguez is writer and performer Tamara Yajia @tamarayajia (“Acapulco”;…
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Boardroom to Boss Moves: Building Her Own Table w/ Daphine Willingham
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1:21:54What happens when you stop waiting for a seat and decide to build the whole table yourself? In this inspiring episode, Daphine Willingham shares her journey from climbing the corporate ladder to launching her own thriving State Farm agency. With unshakeable faith and fierce determination, Daphine walks us through the mindset shifts, pivots, and bol…
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Mute the Distractions. Move with Purpose. w/Kristen Crockett
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1:02:43Ever felt like you’re doing all the right things—but still feel off, overwhelmed, or just plain empty? In this raw, real, and revelation-packed episode, Transformation Coach Kristen Crockett invites us to pause the hustle and take a hard look at what’s fueling us… and what’s quietly draining us. We dive deep into the hidden costs of distraction, th…
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Injustice is Served: The Sean Diddy Combs Verdict
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38:25After weeks of disturbing witness testimony, the jury in the Sean Diddy Combs case has delivered a confounding, and frankly insulting verdict. How did we get here? And why? Follow Pop Mystery Pod on Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok @popmysterypod Pop Mystery Pod is written and produced by Tess Barker @tesstifybarker. Produced by Tyler Hill. Theme son…
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In this soul-shifting episode, Kara sits down with Licensed Counselor Ebony Mayes Skillens of Amayesing Skills Counseling Center to unpack the emotional toll of perfectionism, high performance, and silent overwhelm. Together, they go deep into what it means to break free from the pressure to “keep it all together,” even when your heart is unravelin…
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The Framing of Pee-Wee Herman (with Erin Lampart)
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1:21:55It was a place where everyone was welcome: “Pee-Wee’s Playhouse.” This magical fever dream of a show impacted an entire generation of people. It also made such a big star of its creator, Paul Reubens, that when Reubens was arrested after being targeted by Florida police, his reputation had a far way to fall. Joining Tess to talk though the genius o…
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Uncompromised Faith & Unapologetic w/ Andrea Wallace
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1:17:00In this powerful conversation, Gen Zer Andrea Wallace — youth pastor, influencer, and mentor — gets real about what it means to carry bold faith in a world that’s loud, curated, and often compromised. With transparency and grace, Andrea shares how she navigates platform pressure, cultural expectations, and the sacred call to disciple Gen Z without …
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Was it white and gold or blue and black? The important thing is, when “The Dress” took over the internet for a glorious week in 2015, the internet was still fun. Joining Tess to talk through the historic and fascinating phenomenon of The Dress, and what it says about today’s internet is Jamie Loftus @jamiechristsuperstar (The Bechdel Cast, My Year …
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Bold Moves Only: Navigating Career Shifts with Confidence w/ Richelle Howell
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1:18:48Career shifts can be scary—but they’re also your gateway to growth. In this energizing episode of Hello MaximizHER, healthcare recruiter and career strategist Richelle Howell breaks down how to navigate career transitions with boldness, clarity and confidence. We dive into: ✨ How to stand out in a competitive job market ✨ What recruiters really loo…
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Sean Diddy Combs’ long-time partner and co-parent died at the young age of 47. At the time, her death was ruled the result of pneumonia, but insiders have expressed suspicions around why Porter really died. Given what’s been alleged about Combs in recent years, Tess unpacks the facts and rumors around Porter’s life and death. Follow Pop Mystery Pod…
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Esthetically Brave; Beautifully Bold w/ Ciara Amir-Beckford
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1:02:16Hey MaximizHERs! This episode right here? ESTHETICALLY BRAVE. 💄🔥 This sister didn’t play it safe. She chose herself. She trusted God. She made bold moves—and now, she’s walking in beauty, bravery, and divine purpose. ✨ Meet Ciara Amir Beckford—certified medical micropigmentologist, licensed esthetician, and healing artist. She’s helping women resto…
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Why We’re Still Seeing So Many “Stories” About the Lively/Baldoni Case
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25:27It’s been half a year since anything meaningful happened in the Baldoni/Lively case. So why do we keep seeing headlines about it? Tess has some ideas. Follow Pop Mystery Pod on Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok @popmysterypod Pop Mystery Pod is written and produced by Tess Barker @tesstifybarker. Produced by Tyler Hill. Theme song by Rick Wood @Rickw0…
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Know Your Roots, Own Your Power with Rikisha Morgan-Harrison
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55:23Sis, are you ready to reconnect with your roots and rediscover the power of your story? We’re joined by the incredible Rikisha Morgan Harrison, a woman on a mission to help us trace our lineage, honor our ancestors, and find healing in our history. This episode is giving wisdom, identity, and legacy—all the things we need to walk fully in our purpo…
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The Sean Diddy Combs Trial - Bombshells So Far
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26:45As we cross what appears to be the midpoint of Sean Diddy Combs’ federal trial, Tess rounds up highlights from witnesses like Cassie Ventura and Kid Cudi, and assesses the prosecution and defense’s strategies thus far. Follow Pop Mystery Pod on Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok @popmysterypod Pop Mystery Pod is written and produced by Tess Barker @tes…
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More Than Love: Learning To Like Your Spouse
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1:01:43Loving your spouse may come naturally—but liking them every day? That can take work. In this final episode of the season, we dive into the often overlooked dynamic of friendship in marriage. From finding common ground to navigating daily irritations, we explore why emotional connection, shared fun, and mutual respect are just as crucial as romantic…
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The Dinosaur Movie Whoopi Goldberg Made Under Duress (with Tom Lenk)
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1:13:13Making a dinosaur buddy cop movie is all fun and games, until you’re Whoopi Goldberg and you actually have to shoot this thing with sworn enemies. Joining Tess on this bonkers journey that sent Tess into the courthouse archives is the hilarious Tom Lenk @tommylenk (“Barb and Star Go to Vista Del Mar,” “Buffy the Vampire Slayer,” “Tilda Swinton Answ…
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The Fun Factor: Keeping Fun Alive In Marriage
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51:59In this episode, we explore how laughter, playfulness, and shared adventures can strengthen a marriage. We’ll discuss why having fun together is essential for emotional connection, how to rediscover joy in everyday life, and practical ideas couples can use to bring more lightheartedness into their relationship. Whether you’re newlyweds or celebrati…
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Patti LuPone Loses It (with Paul Caiola)
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1:06:12There’s only one Patti LuPone. Which is why the s**t hit the gold plated fan when Andrew Llyod Webber tried to have two Norma Desmonds. Tess is joined by Paul Caiola, one of the hosts of “That Aged Well,” (@thatagedwell) as the two of them dissect the fascinating and high drama turns of Patti Lupone’s “Sunset Blvd,” firing, and the antics that foll…
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Today we take a trip back down memory lane where it all started in Spring of 1995 on the campus at the University of Oklahoma. This is our genesis story of humble beginnings.
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Tommy Boy is Hamlet (with Lisa Chanoux)
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1:26:40To be, or not to be? Aye, there’s the central question at the heart of the classic work “Tommy Boy” the 1995 broad comedy starring the late Chris Farley. This movie is more than a work of staggering childish genius. It is also a sophisticated adaptation of “Hamlet,” as in, the Shakespeare one. Joining Tess for a close reading of “Tommy Boy” through…
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From Kids to Clients: Parenting Adult Children
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51:17As parents we count it a joy and honor to raise little ones that potentially could be the future leaders and business people in the world. It's cute and fun watching them murmur their first word or take their first steps, But what about when they are all grown up and the things you thought were cute and cuddly are now frustrating and costly. In tod…
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The landslide of allegations against Sean Diddy Combs was started by a singular person - R&B singer Cassie Ventura. Cassie’s allegations formed the framework for the federal case against Sean Combs, which is set to kick off May 5, 2025. Tess takes a deep look into Cassie’s harrowing escape and the surprising stories Cassie’s intersects with. Follow…
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In today's conversation we dive into the taboo conversation that most Christian couples don't like to have before marriage: SEX! Contrary to popular belief, sex was created by God to be enjoyed in marriage. Join us as we dive deep into this hot topic.
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Selena, Yolanda, and the Room Where It Happened (with Vanessa Gonzalez)
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1:19:54Selena Quintanilla was 23 years old, and well on her way to becoming an international megastar when she was shot and killed by Yolanda Saldivar, the president of her fan club. Though a biopic starring Jennifer Lopez paints a fairly simple picture of this tragic death, the truth appears less black and white. Only two people really know how and Selen…
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In today's episode we are talking about reflecting on our past and dealing with childhood trauma, past wounds and the baggage that we all bring into relationships that many of us fail to address prior to marriage.
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It Takes Two (Episodes) - The Olsen Twins Return (With Guy Branum)
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51:58If there is such a thing as the typical college experience, Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen, the two most famous child star twins of all time, were probably never going to have it. Nevertheless, they persisted…kind of. Joining Tess to talk through the Olsen twins transition to otherworldly fashion icons is writer, actor, and comic Guy Branum. See Guy’s …
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Our 24 year old daughter Maiya joins us this week to give the next generation's perspective on love, dating and relationships.
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The Olsen Twins: The Origin Story (With Guy Branum)
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53:03The Olsen twins are endlessly fascinating celebrities. They were selected for stardom before they could walk. They’re both an inspirational story and I cautionary tale. They’re just so important. Joining Tess to talk through the wild mystery that is the Olsen twins existence is writer, actor, and comic Guy Branum. See Guy’s new one-person show “Fru…
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Creating healthy boundaries is important for any kind of relationship but in today's episode we discuss the importance of healthy boundaries in marriage.
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The Mall in Barbra Streisand’s Basement (with Chelsea Devantez)
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1:18:14Forget skeletons in the closet. Barbra Streisand has a mall. In her basement. Like, a real one. Joining Tess to tour this fascinating and unhinged corner of American architecture is writer, director, and podcaster Chelsea Devantez. Chelsea’s memoir “I Shouldn’t Be Telling You This, But I’m Going to Anyway,” is out now. Her podcast “Glamorous Trash”…
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In this episode Lonnie and Kara continue the discussion about finances and money matters but also from the perspective of discovering your God-given gifts and talents to help generate income for your family.
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Jojo Siwa and Unhappy Pop Star Campers (with Jade Catta-Preta)
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1:19:34Before she was proclaiming she’d invented “gay pop,” child dance phenom-turned heavily costumed try-hard helmed a junior girl group called XOMG. The group claimed to offer aspiring pop stars as young as 8 years old a line into their show biz dreams. Some claim what followed was a candy-flavored nightmare. Joining Tess to talk through Jojo’s turn as…
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