For Those Of You Who Don’t Know Me … is a talk show podcast about weddings — but not just about weddings. Hosted by celebrant and wedding insider Josh Withers, it’s a conversation between two people who give a damn about great weddings. No pitches or scripts. Just real chats with the people behind the wedding ceremonies, florals, photos, and spreadsheets. Made for couples and creators, it’s part behind-the-scenes, part therapy, part funny group chat. Come for the honesty, stay for the stories.
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Josh Withers Podcasts
Josh Withers is a marriage celebrant, a nerd, a husband, and a prolific ‘about section’ creator.
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A regular talk show on being a marriage celebrant, the Australian marriage laws around celebrancy, and the art of running a celebrant business, hosted by the editors of the Celebrant Institute, Josh Withers and Sarah Aird
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Dear Future Bride is a podcast hosted by wedding planner Kiera Ryan, diving into the side of weddings no one talks about. Not trends or timelines—just real brides, unfiltered stories, and the stuff no one tells you. It’s honest, a little chaotic, sometimes emotional—and made for anyone planning their wedding or anyone who loves a behind-the-scenes gossip session. Dear Future Bride—this is how it really went down.
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Music: it's good. On each episode of Strong Songs, host Kirk Hamilton takes listeners inside a piece of music, breaking it down and figuring out what makes it work.
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Welcome to the Beaverton Seventh-Day Adventist Church podcast. We invite you to worship services on Saturday mornings: 9:00 AM and 11:30 AM. In addition, you will find a video library at vimeo.com/beavertonsda.
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A brutally honest mental health podcast where mental illness meets dark humor, real talk, and zero shame. Welcome to Beat The Mental Health Out Of It!—a raw, unfiltered show hosted by “The DEFECTIVE Schizoaffective,” a lovable goofball turning trauma into a comedy act no one asked for. He’s often joined by his no-nonsense mentor “IndyPocket,” a sharp, seasoned mental health professional with decades of insight and a wicked sense of humor. Together, they dive into the chaos of mental illness, ...
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#17: Josh Withers - "Getting married isn’t the point"
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35:52Josh Withers joins Kiera for the first in a series of bonus episodes where she sits down with vendors who really know what they’re doing and aren’t afraid to tell it like it is. This series is all about giving you real, practical insight into what it takes to plan an epic day, straight from the people who live and breathe weddings. First up: your c…
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So the invitation said 'we love your children, but'
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45:37Sarah-Louise Anderson reveals how her $60,000 micro-wedding sparked family feuds, severed friendships, and taught her which relationships were worth keeping—all over ginger beer and missing guests.By Josh Withers
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#16: Alice Pollard - "It felt like our Pinterest board in real life"
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30:21Alice Pollard joins Kiera to share what it’s really like planning a wedding with a full-time job, two kids, and zero spare hours in the day. In this episode, she unpacks the hidden load of trying to do it all - navigating timelines, decisions, and logistics while constantly running on empty. From weather stress to budget blowouts, disappearing rose…
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THE APOCALYPSE WERE: Tony Capuano - Guitar, Lead Vocals John Shorb - Alto Sax Gene Meros - Tenor Sax Greg Novik - Bass, Backing Vocals (guitar on Stormy Monday) Oggie Hamilton - Drums, Backing Vocals Featuring The Apocalypse playing: “Good Good Lovin’” and “Try Me” by James Brown “Hi-Heel Sneakers" by Tommy Tucker “The Shadow of Your Smile” by Mand…
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#15: Isabela Rose Becker - "Social media puts so much pressure on weddings"
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42:24Isabela Becker joins Kiera to pull back the curtain on what it really felt like to plan a wedding while carrying more than anyone realised. In this episode, she shares how social pressure, people-pleasing, and overwhelming expectations crept into every part of the process, leaving her drained, second-guessing herself, and struggling to stay grounde…
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Playing Battleships with wedding photographers
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38:51Film photography is overrated, organic carrots don't make a good wedding, and Kiera Ryan from Creative Weddings Byron Bay chooses the three wedding photographers she would get if she was getting married this afternoon as she joins the first episode of my new podcast, For those of you who don't know me… Links from the episode: Bayleigh Vedelago wedd…
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#14: Rachel Chevell - "I had an anxiety attack on my wedding day"
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34:55Rachel Chevell joins Kiera to unpack the emotional layers of planning your own wedding, especially when you’re used to being behind the scenes. She thought she knew what to expect. But between the pressure to please everyone, unexpected costs, and the emotional weight of the day, planning her own wedding hit harder than anticipated. From hiding in …
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Modern Masculinity: Pressure, Pain & Showing Up (w/ Josh Guffey)
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3:29:56We poke the bear: men, mental health, and the minefield of dating. Suicide stats, real strengths, and why ‘toxic’ isn’t the same as masculine. CW: Explicit language; gender politics; sensitive topics What does showing up look like for men right now? We sift the noise: suicide rates, emotional openness, protection and provision, and where ‘toxic’ ge…
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#13: Nikolina Borovina - "I 3D modelled the whole thing"
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33:24Nikolina Borovina joins Kiera to unpack the kind of wedding that doesn’t fit inside a mood board. An architect by trade, she turned a blank sports club into a high-concept celebration- designing custom 3D layouts, building 80 handmade centrepieces, and mapping every detail down to the millimetre. But beyond the design was pressure: being the first …
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#12: Kelli France - "We planned a wedding in 100 days"
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30:19Kelli France joins Kiera to share what it was like planning her daughter’s wedding in just 100 days. A confidence coach and mother of four, Kelli brought her signature clarity and care into every decision, while navigating budget constraints, big feelings, and the delicate art of letting go. From family dynamics to creative compromises, Kelli refle…
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For the Season Seven finale, Kirk takes a look at Bill Withers' enduring hit "Lean On Me." In the process, he takes a broader look at a bunch of Withers' other most famous songs to better understand how this plainspoken, seemingly ordinary guy managed to write so many extraordinary songs. Written by: Bill Withers Album: Still Bill, 1972 Listen/Buy …
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Surviving Psychosis: Story, Stigma & Creativity (w/ Rachel Star Withers)
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2:23:06Rachel Star Withers joins Nick to talk living with schizophrenia, daily suicidal ideation and creating anyway—no horror‑movie gloss, just real life and craft. CW: Explicit language; discussion of psychosis and suicide Creator/advocate Rachel Star Withers sits down with Nick for a blunt conversation on schizophrenia, depression, and the tightrope of…
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#11: Kat John - "The day trumped my vision"
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37:30Kat John sits down with Kiera to share the story behind a wedding that was deeply intentional, beautifully untraditional, and wholly true to who she and Steve are. Known for guiding others to live from their truth, Kat brings that same grounded, no-bullshit energy into her wedding planning journey - ditching the pressure, skipping the traditions, a…
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#10: Felicia Tanner - "I didn’t ask for feedback - I wanted validation"
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33:46Felicia Tanner joins Kiera to share how she pulled off a wedding that was stylish, intentional, and refreshingly low-drama. From curating a bar menu in her PJs to switching dresses two months out, nothing was off-limits - and nothing was sugar-coated. They talk decision fatigue, budget meltdowns, opinion overload, and the satisfaction of making you…
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Kirk answers a bunch of listener questions on topics like bluegrass guitar, the music of Blue Prince, good apps for training theory skills, Robert Fripp's "Frippertronics," a mysterious sound on a Gene Clark song, different types of music notation, and the legacy of the blues. All that, and a trio of terrific singer/songwriters stops by the studio …
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Faith Without Performance: Choosing Your Own Path to Spirituality
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3:06:09We take faith off the stage and into real life: doubt, humor, and the right to build a spiritual path without the costume and court of public opinion. CW: Explicit language; religious critique We’re not here to deconvert or recruit—we’re here to tell the truth. Faith can heal or harm depending on how it’s wielded. We talk performance religion, hypo…
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#9: Georgia Whitaker - "I refused to get out of the car"
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34:25Georgia Whitaker joins Kiera to unpack the wedding she never thought she’d have - trading elopement dreams for a full celebration with everyone they loved. A Byron Bay local legend (and if you know Byron, you know Georgia), she brings her signature humour to the conversation as she shares the unexpected anxiety on the day, the behind-the-scenes fam…
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#8: Rachael McAdam - "I broke my leg 6 weeks out"
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32:33Rachael McAdam joins Kiera to unpack her wedding planning journey - one that took a turn just weeks out with a broken leg, a shifted perspective, and a whole lot of letting go. What started as a vision grounded in creativity and intention turned into a lesson in surrender, support, and choosing what really matters. From emotional burnout to vendor …
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"Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic" by The Police
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1:00:16In 1981, Sting brought a demo of a song he'd been working on down to AIR Studios in Montserrat to see what his bandmates thought of it... and they wound up keeping the demo and just recording their parts on top. The result was "Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic," an unusual Police song, but an enduring hit. On this episode, Kirk goes deep on eve…
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Expression vs. Exploitation: Shadow Work for Dangerous Urges
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1:36:52We go to the hard place: owning shadow urges without hurting anyone. Safe expression, guided exploration, zero exploitation. Dark topic, strict lines. CW: Explicit language; discussion of sexual harm prevention; sensitive topics Shadow work isn’t theory when the urges are dangerous. We draw bright lines: legal, consensual, harm‑free. Our 2‑E framew…
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#7: Cassie Burton - "I thought I could do it myself"
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26:47Cassie Burton joins Kiera to talk through the wedding that looked low-key on the outside—but carried the same pressure, expectations, and emotional weight as any big event. From family dynamics to second-guessing decisions, she shares what surprised her, what grounded her, and why keeping the day true to them was always the priority. It’s honest, r…
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Acceptance First: The Messy Start of Real Growth (w/ Josh Guffey)
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2:19:08Acceptance isn’t surrender—it’s the ignition. Guff returns to talk bad teachers, damaged friendships, regrets and why owning reality changes it. CW: Explicit language; dark humor; frank discussion of misdiagnosis Acceptance is not giving up—it’s grabbing the wheel. Guff is back to unpack childhood messes, school wins and losses, friendship implosio…
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#6: Taylor Clements - “It wasn’t what I planned—but it was perfect”
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27:36Taylor Clements joins Kiera to unpack the real story behind her Byron Bay wedding—planned from interstate, postponed thanks to COVID, and pulled off with trust, intention, and a whole lot of heart. What started as a vision for an effortless beachside celebration turned into two venues, surprise bus rides, a rain-soaked ceremony, and one of the most…
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"All The Things You Are" by Jerome Kern & Oscar Hammerstein II
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59:47The jazz standard "All The Things You Are" has been performed countless times by master jazz vocalists, 30s big bands, bebop small groups, hard-bop combos, modern deconstructionists, and even soon-to-be Kings of Pop. On this episode, Kirk takes listeners through the history of the now-famous tune, from its humble Broadway origins all the way to his…
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The Shadow Self: Owning Your Dark Side Without Wrecking Your Life
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1:35:08We’re all a little awful… and that’s a beautiful thing! GOOD NEWS: owning your shadow makes you safer, saner, and less performatively ‘good.’ Tools, jokes, and Jung in plain English. CW: Explicit language; dark humor Your shadow isn’t the villain—it’s in your DNA. We rip through shame, moral posturing, and the fantasy of being ‘pure,’ and get pract…
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#5: Lizzy Thomas - "My mum's speech caught me off guard"
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31:50Lizzy Thomas is in the hot seat this week, sitting down with Kiera to unpack the reality behind her visually unforgettable Byron Bay wedding—one that started as a plan to elope in Italy and ended with 18 vendors, a marquee build, and a feature in Hello May. They talk about the pressure of doing things “the right way,” navigating religious expectati…
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#4: Zoe Urquhart - "What kind of royalty do we think we are?"
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33:34Zoe Urquhart is the definition of grace under pressure—and in this episode, she sits down with Kiera to unpack her wedding planning journey, from wild weather threats (yes, an actual cyclone) to emotional curveballs no one saw coming. They talk decision fatigue, family dynamics, budgeting realities, and the pressure to make every choice feel person…
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Life After War: PTSD, Therapy & Finding Peace (w/ Marc Wichman)
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2:48:05Vietnam veteran and my great uncle, Marc Wichman on childhood trauma, war, coming home to chaos—and the therapy that kept him alive. CW: Graphic war stories; childhood abuse; explicit language Marc Wichman—Vietnam veteran, storyteller, and all‑around mensch—walks us through a life that started hard and got harder: childhood abuse, combat, the cold …
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#3: Jaimee Shaw - "You need to consider the vibe they bring"
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29:56Jamiee Shaw—content creator and newlywed—joins Kiera to talk about the mental load of wedding planning and what it really felt like behind the scenes. From the pressure of people-pleasing to the chaos of seating charts, Jamie shares how she navigated expectations, leaned into what actually felt right, and let go of the rest. They dive into the emot…
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#2: Ebonie Cooper - "I'm not even invited on this podcast"
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30:42Ebonie Cooper is a past bride turned friend—and in this episode, she sits down with Kiera to talk through what really went down. From planning a wedding while navigating life with her now-husband Tom Cooper, a professional cricket player, to managing family expectations, guest list drama, and the pressure to please everyone. They also talk about th…
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#1: Eva Hendricks - "It was like an out of body experience"
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39:51Eva Hendricks—frontwoman of Charly Bliss—joins Kiera to talk wedding planning, emotional chaos, and what hit her harder than the spotlight ever has, as she shares what it was really like planning a wedding while touring across the U.S. Eva opens up about the pressure to hold it all together, the moments no one prepares you for, and the emotional we…
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"Total Eclipse of the Heart" by Jim Steinman and Bonnie Tyler
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1:00:19Turn around... every now and then I get a little lonely and the snare is sounding small Turn around... every now and then I get a little bit tired of listening to the sound of sleigh bells Turn around... every now and then I get a little bit nervous that the cannons will not fire Turn around... ...every now and then Kirk decides to take on a classi…
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Drumming & the Brain: IQ, Synesthesia & ASMR (w/ Chris Brien)
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2:30:27Chris Brien on rhythm, learning, and weird brain perks: synesthesia, true‑blue ASMR, and why practice builds thinking—on and off the kit. CW: Explicit language Chris Brien (from Australia) drops a masterclass on drumming and cognition: why rhythm training can sharpen learning, how synesthesia colors music, and what real ASMR feels like when it’s no…
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Bluey, Background Jazz, and the 'Best' Metal Guitar Solo
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1:08:00How should you count The Police's "Bed's Too Big Without You?" Why do so many people revere Marty Friedman's solo on Megadeth's "Tornado of Souls"? What's going on with those pauses during the Bluey theme? And what the heck is that sound on Sly and the Family Stone's "Sex Machine"? Those questions and many more on the first mailbag episode of Seaso…
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Hannah, a new celebrant, has asked us to talk about pricing, prices, how to price yourself as a celebrant and whether it's ok to charge less when you're first starting out.
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Kirk pays a visit the musical world of The Muppets, from their Sesame Street origins in the 60s to the globe-hopping, cinematic heights of the 70s and 80s, with plenty of detours along the way. FEATURING: "Sesame Street Theme" by Joe Raposo, Jon Stone, and Bruce Hart "Mah Na Mah Na" by Piero Umilliani from Sweden: Heaven and Hell "Pinball Number Co…
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Introducing Dear Future Bride. Real stories. Zero filter. The stuff no one tells you—until now.
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0:56Dear Future Bride is a podcast hosted by wedding planner Kiera Ryan, diving into the side of weddings no one talks about. This isn’t about trends, checklists, or perfect tablescapes—it’s about what actually happens behind the scenes. Real brides sharing real stories: what worked, what didn’t, what they’d do differently, and what ended up mattering …
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"Roulette Dares (The Haunt Of)" by The Mars Volta
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59:07Kirk digs into one of the most dense and challenging records in his collection, with an analysis of "Roulette Dares (The Haunt Of)" from The Mars Volta's 2003 progressive rock opus De-Loused in the Comatorium. Written by: Omar Rodríguez-López, Cedric Bixler-Zavala, and Jeremy Ward Produced by: Omar Rodríguez-López & Rick Rubin Album: De-Loused in t…
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Infidelity, Alcoholism, and Fallout: A Family Man’s Mental Recovery (w/ Josh Guffey)
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3:10:46Josh Guffey shares a friend’s story—betrayal, alcoholism, and suicidal thoughts. Not gossip: a study in damage, boundaries, and rebuilding. CW: Infidelity; alcohol misuse; suicidal ideation; explicit language When trust blows apart, the shrapnel hits everyone. Josh brings a close friend’s experience (shared with consent) of infidelity, self‑depriva…
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We delve into things you might need to know as a new celebrant joining the wedding industry - how to start and build a business, how to be friends with the rest of the industry, and how to be a better celebrant than you were yesterday. Let us know if there's anything you want us to talk about at [email protected]!…
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ADHD, ADD & Drumming: Coping Through Rhythm (w/ Jay Fenichel)
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1:41:58Content creator Jay Fenichel (founder of ‘The Drummer’s Almanac’) on using drumming to focus a noisy brain, social media burnout, and raising musicians who actually practice. CW: Explicit language Can rhythm wrangle a runaway brain? Jay Fenichel dives into drumming as a coping tool for ADHD/ADD, the hidden strain of high‑volume content creation, an…
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Kirk digs into Fiona Apple's breakneck 1999 single "Fast As You Can," a cornerstone in her late 90s collaborations with Jon Brion, as well as her work with drummer Matt Chamberlain. Written by: Fiona Apple Produced by: Jon Brion Album: When The Pawn..., 1999 Listen/Buy via Album.Link ALSO REFERENCED/DISCUSSED: Jon Brion in Performing Songwriter Mag…
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AI & Mental Health: Ego Death, EchoAI & Self‑Inquiry (w/ Alexis Krebs)
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1:51:38Alexis Krebs on using AI conversations for radical self‑inquiry, noetic resonance, and why “ego death” isn’t sci‑fi—or a shortcut. CW: Explicit language; philosophical content Can AI help you see yourself more clearly? Alexis makes the case—walking us through EchoAI dialogues, noetic resonance theory, and the guardrails for using these tools withou…
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Unmasking: Why We Hide and How to Be Seen
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33:58We don’t mask to protect the world from us—we’re protecting ourselves from the world. Shame, performance, and learning to show up anyway. CW: Explicit language If you’ve ever felt like a walking PR team for your own life, this one’s for you. We dig into masking, people‑pleasing, and the fear of being seen—plus the small reps that build real authent…
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"Where The Streets Have No Name" and "With Or Without You" by U2
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59:24Strong Songs Season Seven kicks off with two of the most famous songs ever recorded, from one of the biggest bands in the world. U2's "Where the Streets Have No Name" and "With or Without You" make up two-thirds of the three-song "suite" of hit singles that kicked off their 1987 album The Joshua Tree. As it turns out, the two songs have a lot to sa…
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The podcast episode about the email about the regulations recorded on a school night
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35:41You probably got that email sent to all celebrants about the Marriage Regulations legislation and the "new" requirement in the code of practice regarding "reasonable and timely responses" to requests from marrying couples. This episode of the Celebrant Talk Show podcast also covers service contracts in regards to tropical cyclones approaching Brisb…
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