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The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction Podcast

Gary McFarlane

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Gary McFarlane helps you understand Sex, Porn & Love Addiction. This podcast dives into the neuroscience behind these issues, guiding you on the path to recovery. For more resources, visit: www.kairos-centre.com. Helping you better understand the neuroscience of the brain and sharing what we now better understand about the brain's involvement, from childhood development. To help you effect change; find the real authentic you (whose truth self went off at a tangent in childhood); so that as y ...
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Singles Partners Marrieds Long Time Marrieds Podcast

Gary McFarlane

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Couples counselling is not necessarily about keeping a couple together at all. All about exploring options; to help you both gain insight and understanding about self and how you do life, as an individual. Whether a Partnership or a marriage, these things are true: “Marriage is not the coming together of two people. It’s a clash of two cultures, two experiences, two memories, two habits, two morals, two values. And that is a formula for destruction” - Dr Myles Munro “[It] is [also] the place ...
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Compromised brain communication filtering 9:27

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When we are communicating, the information is passing through the filters of the different structures of the brain. We all have filters. The message being transmitted is going through the receiver, but the receiver has filters and that means the message can come out the other end looking very different to what went in and was received. A damaged or…
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Not about the nail in my head - men in the dog house! 9:51

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"A friend asks, "Tell me one word which is significant in any kinds of relationship." Another friend says, "LISTEN!" — Santosh Kalwar As we continue to Repair broken communication in the couple because of Sex/Porn/Love Addiction trauma damage - recognise there is a big difference between Listening and Hearing. Sometimes we need to think outside of …
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The Body tells the truth, more than the trained Brain 10:53

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During Communication, our body demeanour is going to give us away. Know the facts about the body and how you main have trained it to 'tell on you'! When we first meet someone we form a very strong impression of them within the first 40 seconds. We form a lasting opinion of them within the first 4 minutes. Our opinion will influence the way in which…
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Effective Communication - do you know these truths? 13:11

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Put these tools into your armoury of resources to help you communicate more effectively: John Grays 'Men are from mars and women are from Venus' is still worth a read. Also (although a somewhat provocative title) 'Men don't listen and women can't read maps' - is worth reading. Both books remind us that there is a difference between how masculinity …
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Sex Addict and effective Communication - do you know these truths? 11:53

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Send us a text - On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre Put these tools into your armoury of resources to help you communicate more effectively: John Grays 'Men are from mars and women are from Venus' is still worth a read. Also (although a somewhat provocative title) 'Men don't listen and women can't read maps' - …
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'Communication' is like a tandem bicycle wheel 10:11

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Remember our foundational question: 'Do you enter a conversation to be understood or to understand?' Communication is like a bicycle wheel. Picture the two of you riding along the road to your destination, but not getting very far because both wheels on your tandem bicycle are buckled. You will get to your destination, but not very fast and it is t…
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Effective Communication with you is broken 11:44

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Listening effectively is a very valuable gift to someone. It is costly. It values the other person. It is learned and must be practiced. There is a difference between hearing and listening. Listening means that the information stops in the brain and is processed and digested. When information is not digested, then you will find you did not really l…
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Season 14 Episode 2: Watch Along - The Beer Story 1:27:03

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Mike and Rusty Watch (and comment) the New Season Hank and Bobby are competitors in a home beer brewing competition. Boomhauer bonds with Luke Jr. over non-alcoholic beer.Directors Mollie Helms Wesley Archer Annie Li Writers Mike Judge Greg Daniels Saladin K. Patterson Stars Mike Judge Kathy Najimy Pamela Adlon Learn more about your ad choices. Vis…
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Couples in a See-saw dance for years 12:51

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Split agendas and contrary motives - that are hidden from each other. Is that you? Jake & Jasmine on the seesaw of life, illustrates it. There are appearances, but below the surface of the relationship may be there is entrenched Emotional Disengagement. Couples engage in a dance for years, re-acting and counter re-acting to each others actions and …
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Season 14 Episode 1: PREMIERE Watch Along - Return of the King 30:09

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Mike and Rusty Watch (and comment) the New Season Hank and Peggy move back to Arlen and struggle to readjust to their old life. Bobby runs into a childhood friend in Dallas. Directors Kelly Turnbull Wesley Archer Writers Mike Judge Greg Daniels Saladin K. Patterson Stars Mike Judge Kathy Najimy Pamela Adlon Learn more about your ad choices. Visit m…
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Are you stubborn as a mule? 11:51

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Does that image of the mules describe your relationship? of course not you, but your partner! Each trying to get their needs met. Those Core Emotional Needs. Remember that Core Emotional Needs are not negotiable. They want to be met and Fight/Flight/ Freeze will play out where they have been depleted for some time. (This dynamic is all so unconscio…
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Relationship "Pinches" & "Crunches" that hurt (Part 2) 13:06

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Couples counselling is not necessarily about keeping a couple together at all. All about exploring options. Also to help you both gain insight and understanding about self and how you do life, as an individual. Whether a Partnership or a marriage, these things are true: “Marriage is not the coming together of two people. It’s a clash of two culture…
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Repairing the Couple from conflict damage 11:55

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Building new foundations for the couple: Take a look at the Different Relationship Images document attached to this Podcast. I try to bypass language as much as possible. Feelings do not always tell the truth. We can be very English. Very British! Question: "How are you today". Answer: "I'm fine thank you". Observation after the automatic response:…
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Partner choice: What don't I know? Tell me 10:01

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We fall in love with 'Differenceness' and 'Sameness'. Over the years, we can become dissatisfied with the unconscious differences of a partner, that is now in the conscious. So we set about trying to change them to be more like us, since those visible and conscious differences are no longer seemingly acceptable or wanted. We consciously now only wa…
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Couples: Relationship Highs & Lows 8:25

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Highs and lows of the Couples relationship is a given. What impacts you, may not impact a partner and vice versa. Childhood development personality and characteristic sharping experiences, play a significant part in that process. Some partners need to take their shoes off and step into the shoes of the other partner in order to see the relationship…
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Couples: "I chose you, then (nearly) destroyed us" 10:10

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Early relationships (often with our parents) has a very powerful impact on the blueprint of partner choice. They are unconsciously looked at as being able to repair those childhood wounds. We often seek a blueprint that “fits” ours. When we meet a potential partner, we have an opportunity to re-Attach to a loved person, just like (or better than) t…
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Rusty and Mike Tell the Whole Tale of the ATX TV Festival and the Interview of Jonathan Joss aka John Redcorn 27:04

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Rusty and Mike Tell the entire story of the ATX TV Festival and the Interview of Jonathan Joss aka John Redcorn at The Green Room at Mr. Nice Guys. We talk about the volunteer who had to shut down Jonathan at the mic that night and how things progressed the next few days. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…
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Has the relationship passed being retrievable? 10:10

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At the beginning of the couples therapy session, I like to ask a first question - 'How did you guys meet?' Telling the story will reveal the greater truth about where the couple are at in the conflict. Has the loving got snuffed out or is there a glimmer of light that may still be turned up. Is there a split agenda? Are there ulterior motives for o…
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King of the Hill's Own John Redcorn aka Jonathan Joss Interview at The Green Room Austin 55:15

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On the heels of the cringe at the ATX TV Festival King of the Hill Panel, we Interview Arlen's Own John Redcorn aka Jonathan Joss at The Green Room Austin. The people couldn't have been nicer, and the interview was great! Looking forward to the new seasons and seeing Redcorn on screen again! Thank You Jonathan! @looknowproductions @originalredcorn …
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Couples Conflict & Sex don't mix 5:53

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When there is conflict in the couples relationship, sex and intimacy becomes the first casualty which fly out the window. It is very difficult (sometimes feels impossible) to physically touch the person with whom you are in conflict. Yet, touch is exactly what you need to do to begin to break down the walls set in place by conflict. Touch is then s…
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Season 7 Episode 18: "I Never Promised You an Organic Garden" (Apr 13, 2003) 1:04:52

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Peggy convinces Principal Moss to hire her as the new full-time organic gardening teacher by promising the vegetables to the football team. However, organic gardening proves much harder than it sounds. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Rogue Media Network
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