Best Stepmom Help Podcasts (2025)

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Sentimental Clutter and Grief - How to Let Go After a Parent Dies When Swedish Death Cleaning Never Happened #175 40:48

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What happens when you’re suddenly faced with decades of belongings, layers of family history, and every sentimental item your parents never let go of? And how do you even begin to declutter and organize when you’re grieving at the same time? I’ve seen firsthand how overwhelming this can feel. The closets, the papers, the diaries, the hidden surpris…

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218. How to Positively Influence Your Kids' Character When Your Ex Undermines Your Values 29:25

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If you’ve ever felt like the values you’re trying to instill in your kids get undone the moment they step into the other home, you’re not alone. We’ve been there—and we know how discouraging it can feel. In this episode, we share a powerful tool we first learned from Ron Deal called the Inoculation Strategy. It’s a simple, practical way to prepare …

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#112: Getting Over Your Partner’s Past (And How to Stop Throwing It in Their Face) 29:07

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In this candid episode, Alicia gets real about something most stepmoms won’t say out loud: you want to be over your partner’s past… but reminders keep ambushing you—kids’ faces, old photos, in-law stories, even the house you live in. She explains why your brain grabs the past when you don’t feel safe, the hidden cost of re-hashing old wounds, and a…

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14. Is the Ex High Conflict or Just Difficult? How to Tell 11:49

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She's nice to you at the school concert, then sends a toxic text that same night. You're left wondering – is the ex really high conflict? Maybe she just had a bad night... maybe you're imagining things... maybe you're the problem? This episode cuts through the confusion with a clear way to help you recognise if she’s truly high conflict, or if she’…

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🤨 SHOULD we parent our stepkids though? 3:49

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If you need help wrapping your brain around the idea of of disengaging in a positive way, I wrote a whole ebook to help with that: ➡️ Not Your Circus, Not Your Monkeys: The Frustrated Stepparent's Guide to Reclaiming Personal Peace. It includes advice and a step-by-step how-to along with my personal stories about disengaging, plus a bunch of differ…

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The Messy Middle Part 1 18:51

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Before Season 3, let's talk about the messy middle, shall we? Grateful to be here posting this at 10:58 pm on August 29, 2025 from my palace in the clouds. Thank you for being here. I love you.

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Shonen Jumping the Gun: Bartender 42:43

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Continuing the craft arc, Moxie the Yeen and Isekai Sensei-Sama tie one on with Bartender. Chat with us instantly by clicking here! Support the show Sugoi Mart is your one-stop shop for the best Japanese snacks, candy, toys, and merch! Click here or use code APR15 at checkout to get 15% off your first order. Check out our website, AnimePodcasterRei…

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Simple Step: How does your past impact your present? 7:31

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Resources Surviving & Thriving in Stepfamily Relationships by Patricia Papernow Episode 217. Feeling Overwhelmed and Powerless? How to Regain Hope with Tools that Heal [with EJ and Tarah Kerwin] Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences Episode 206. Avoid These 5 Common Pitfalls to Ensure a Successful Par…

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How to Manage Clutter and Chaos as a Stepmom Creating Calm in a Blended Family Home (Ideas You Can Use Too) #174 27:42

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Sign up for the FREE live event: The Stepmom Summit What happens when you suddenly go from living alone to managing a busy blended family home? The clutter piles up. The chaos feels endless. And overwhelm can hit hard. I know so many of us—whether we’re stepmoms or not—have felt that same frustration. You want peace, calm, and order in your space. …

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#111: When You’re Spiraling as a Stepmom: Why It Happens and How to Stop 27:43

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Spiraling happens to every stepmom. You’re not broken—you’re human. In this episode, Alicia breaks down why stepmoms spiral, when it usually happens, and the steps you can take to calm your nervous system and find your footing again. If you’ve ever felt like your thoughts are racing, your chest is tight, and everything feels like too much, this epi…

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13. Stop Living in Fear: How to Set Boundaries When You're Terrified of What She'll Do Next 13:08

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You and your partner give in to ridiculous demands because the fear of what the high conflict ex might do feels scarier than just putting up with her current toxic behaviour. And the exhaustion of constantly managing her emotions is crushing you. But what if all this careful tiptoeing is actually making you more vulnerable, not less? In this episod…

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🐸 Frogs in boiling water 3:53

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A high conflict ex can turn stepfamily life into a nightmare. How can stepparents keep from getting cooked ourselves? Read the full transcript on Substack >> -- ➡️ STRUGGLING? START HERE! 🧡 JOIN OUR SUPPORT COMMUNITY 🗣️ SHARE YOUR OWN STORY! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episod…

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Shonen Jumping the Gun: Yakitate!! Japan 49:09

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At the start of a new arc, Moxie the Yeen and Isekai Sensei-Sama have b-read an older manga about a certain culinary art. Join them as they salivate over Yakitate!! Japan. Chat with us instantly by clicking here! Support the show Sugoi Mart is your one-stop shop for the best Japanese snacks, candy, toys, and merch! Click here or use code APR15 at c…

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Clutter Distractions, Procrasticleaning, and Mental Load (How to stay focused, boost productivity, and create systems that work at home) #173 25:18

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Do you ever sit down to work… and suddenly find yourself tidying the kitchen instead? Or waste half an hour shuffling through papers, even though you know the real project waiting for you is more important? You’re not alone. Clutter distractions, procrasticleaning, and the invisible mental load are stealing your focus. They drain your energy, slow …

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217. Feeling Overwhelmed and Powerless? How to Regain Hope with Tools that Heal [with EJ & Tarah Kerwin] 1:03:48

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If you’ve ever wondered why blending a family feels so hard—even when you're "doing everything right"—this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, we connect with EJ and Tarah Kerwin—professional therapists and co-founders of the Relationship Renovation Counseling Center—who open up about the very real and very raw struggles they faced when th…

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#110: The Secret Journal Every Stepmom Should Have 22:07

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Ever wish you could say exactly what’s on your mind to your partner’s ex… but know it’ll only make things worse? In this episode, Alicia shares the concept of an “Ex-Files”—a private place to store your unspoken thoughts, frustrations, and screenshots. Learn why it’s essential for your peace, your relationship, and your stepmom sanity. You’ll disco…

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12. She’s Poisoning Their Minds: What to Do When the Kids Believe Her Lies 13:44

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What do you do when your stepchild repeats something cruel – and you know it came straight from her? This episode is your guide to one of the most painful things stepmums face – when the high-conflict ex plants toxic messages in the kids’ minds and tries to turn them against you. I’ll walk you through exactly how to respond without throwing the kid…

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🏆 Step 1 of stepfam success 4:13

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It literally took years for Dan & I to get on the same page as a stepcouple. Which, it turns out, is pretty normal in a blended family. That sure doesn’t make it easy though! Which is why we put together this guide: How to Actually Blend: The Missing Instruction Manual for Stepcouples. You might also want to check out: The 3 phases (& 7 stages) of …

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Shonen Jumping the Gun: Holyland 55:02

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If you thought we'd figure it out by the end of the arc, you'd have more faith in us than we do. But to round out the seinen arc, join Moxie the Yeen and Isekai Sensei-Sama in checking out Holyland. Chat with us instantly by clicking here! Support the show Sugoi Mart is your one-stop shop for the best Japanese snacks, candy, toys, and merch! Click …

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Simple Step: Don't Believe Everything You Think 5:16

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Resources Episode 36. How to Change Your "Stories" and Grow Connection [with Mark Warren] Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need s…

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Why Motivation Doesn’t Help You Declutter (What Works Instead for ADHD, Kids, and a Busy Life) #172 15:35

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Do you ever look around your house and think—why can’t I just get it together? You’ve decluttered before. You’ve read the books. Maybe you even tried KonMari. But no matter how much you want a tidy home… it just doesn’t stick. Is it you? Or is it the system? Let me be real with you—motivation is not the answer. Not when you’re juggling ADHD, kids, …

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#109: When In-Laws Stay Close to the Ex: Navigating the Challenges as a Stepmom 30:44

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In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia dives deep into the challenges that come when in-laws stay close to the ex. This dynamic can leave you feeling like the outsider in your own family, causing frustration, jealousy, and insecurity. But how can you cope with these feelings and build healthier boundaries? Tune in as Alicia shares her …

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11. When You Hate His Ex – and Resent Who You’ve Become 13:55

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Do you ever feel consumed by hate toward your partner’s high conflict ex? In this episode, I unpack the raw, unspoken truth behind those feelings of rage and resentment. We’ll explore what’s happening beneath the surface – and how to shift out of hate without pretending everything’s fine. This episode is a must-listen if: Your thoughts are consumed…

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Heroine Addiction: Not-Sew-Wicked Stepmom 2:28:16

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Mirror, mirror, on the wall. What is the best manhwa series of all? This time on Heroine Addiction, Isekai Sensei-Sama and Bento Baggins are going to find out as they cover Not-Sew-Wicked Stepmom. Chat with us instantly by clicking here! Support the show Sugoi Mart is your one-stop shop for the best Japanese snacks, candy, toys, and merch! Click he…

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❤️‍🩹 Self-care when you can’t even 3:24

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So much of successfully navigating stepparenting depends on our ability to think outside the box — to get creative, to redefine how “family” looks and feels, to reassess what it means to be a stepparent in a way that actually works for us. And all of that applies to self-care for stepparents as well: it’s probably not gonna look how you thought. Wh…

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Shonen Jumping the Gun: GOLDEN MAN 1:18:47

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WHAT EVEN IS SEINEN?! We may never find out. But we're at least going to have fun trying. For this round, Moxie the Yeen and Isekai Sensei-Sama are checking out GOLDEN MAN. Chat with us instantly by clicking here! Support the show Sugoi Mart is your one-stop shop for the best Japanese snacks, candy, toys, and merch! Click here or use code APR15 at …

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216. Ten Kids, One Pandemic, and a Marriage on the Brink: Wes and Jennie’s Empowering Breakthrough 34:31

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If you're feeling stuck in a blended family marriage that’s filled with constant conflict, emotional disconnection, or overwhelming stress, you're not alone—and you're not without hope. Wes and Jennie were right where you are. Ten kids, a new marriage, and the chaos of the pandemic had pushed them into survival mode. Their arguments were frequent a…

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How to Set Up Back-to-School Routines That Work for Your Family That Won’t Fall Apart by Week Two (By Involving Your Kids from the Start ) #171 19:04

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Grab Your Free 15-Minute Declutter Kickstart Guide Back-to-school season sounds like a fresh start… but why does it feel like complete chaos? Lunchboxes. Lost shoes. Meltdowns by 8am. You spent time organizing, tidying, setting up systems—but it’s already teetering on the edge. What if it didn’t have to fall apart by week two? What if your routines…

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#108: When You Can’t Step Back: Managing Stepmom Stress in the Heat of the Moment 20:08

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What do you do when someone says, "Just take a break," but you're knee-deep in dinner, the ex is texting, your stepkid is criticizing your cooking, and you’re one eye twitch away from totally losing it? In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia is getting real about how to handle stress when stepping back isn’t an option. Spoiler: she’s n…

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10. How to Stop Feeling So Triggered By the Ex All the Time 10:36

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It’s not just what she says – it’s how it gets to you. Every time. In this episode, we’re digging into why you feel so triggered, and how to take back your emotional control. You’ll learn how emotional triggers actually work, why you spiral so quickly, and the real reason her drama hits you so hard. I’ll walk you through a step-by-step process to s…

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💩 Those problems were already there. 3:49

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A pep talk for stepparents who get gaslit into believing that the dysfunction at home and/or between co-parents is somehow their fault. Read the full transcript on Substack >> -- ➡️ STRUGGLING? START HERE! 🧡 JOIN OUR SUPPORT COMMUNITY 🗣️ SHARE YOUR OWN STORY! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get acce…

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Shonen Jumping the Gun: Drifters 39:43

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You wouldn't guess it from the title, but it's time for an Ise-nine! This time, Isekai Sensei-Sama has discovered and isekai that just might break through Moxie the Yeen's isekai barrier. Find out in this episode as they check out Drifters. Chat with us instantly by clicking here! Support the show Sugoi Mart is your one-stop shop for the best Japan…

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Simple Step: Choosing Love When it Matter's Most 7:46

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Resources Episode 215. Does Your Relationship Feel Hopeless? Why Giving Up Might Not Be the Answer The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman Episode 155. How to Easily Enjoy Meaningful Conversations and More Connection with Your Spouse [with Jennifer Zumbiel] Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer you…

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How to Get Organized Without Throwing Everything Away! Realistic routines, decluttering tips for busy moms (and why minimalism isn’t the only path to a peaceful home) #170 19:20

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Ever feel like organizing your home means getting rid of everything you love? Like the only way to be “tidy” is to own 7 items and live in a beige box? Yeah... me too. And I’m here to tell you that’s not true. You don’t have to be a minimalist to be organized. If your home is full of books, kids, pets, projects, or personality—you are not disqualif…

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#107: Breaking Codependency as a Stepmom—Finding Your Worth Beyond Others 47:34

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This honest and empowering episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast dives deep into how codependency shows up uniquely in the stepmom experience. From emotional overfunctioning and people-pleasing to the fear of abandonment and control, Alicia shares real talk from her own life, plus tools you can use to start healing. If you've ever felt like your valu…

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9. When the High Conflict Ex Won't Be Reasonable – What to Do 10:41

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Stuck on the emotional rollercoaster of hoping that the high conflict ex will finally be reasonable? In today’s conversation, I talk about why she keeps acting the way she does, why your expectations (however fair) keep getting crushed, and (most importantly) what to focus on instead. If you’ve tried everything and nothing changes, this episode wil…

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🤣🤦🏻‍♀️ Spoiled rotten 2:33

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How to deal when your stepkids are the very definition of a special snowflake. Read the full transcript on Substack >> -- ➡️ STRUGGLING? START HERE! 🧡 JOIN OUR SUPPORT COMMUNITY 🗣️ SHARE YOUR OWN STORY! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blendedfamilyfrappe.substack.…

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Shonen Jumping the Gun: Lucifer and the Biscuit Hammer 53:56

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It's quit possible that we won't figure out what actually ties this arc together. At any rate, join Moxie the Yeen and Isekai Sensei-Sama for the ride as they try to interpret Lucifer and the Biscuit Hammer. Chat with us instantly by clicking here! Support the show Sugoi Mart is your one-stop shop for the best Japanese snacks, candy, toys, and merc…

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215. Does Your Relationship Feel Hopeless? Why Giving Up Might Not Be the Answer 39:24

1M ago39:24

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In this important episode, we’re talking to the spouse who feels stuck, discouraged, or even ready to throw in the towel. We get it. We’ve been there too. We’re diving into a powerful resource: Dr. Gary Chapman’s book, Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away. We’ll unpack four painful myths that keep couples stuck and explore six powerfu…

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Letting Go of Half-Finished Projects, Clutter Guilt, and Someday Stuff (How to release emotional weight and unfinished organizing tasks using the KonMari Method and 15-minute resets) #169 17:14

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Ever feel like your clutter has a backstory? You open a drawer, a cupboard, or that one corner of the bedroom… and there it is again. That unfinished “someday” project. The half-started organizing task. The thing you swore you’d deal with one day… but never quite did. Let’s be honest—it’s not just stuff. It’s stress. It’s guilt. It’s mental clutter…

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#106: Why Stepmoms and Their Partners Keep Having the Same Fights with Annmarie Chereso 1:04:05

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What if conflict isn't the problem—but the portal? In this raw and real episode, Alicia is joined by Annmarie, a fellow stepmom and conflict resolution ninja, to unpack what’s really going on underneath the same old fights. (Spoiler: It’s not about the dishes.) They dig into: Why your drama triangle has assigned seating How to tell if you're reacti…

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8. When Your Partner Won’t Stand Up to Their Ex – and You’re Stuck in the Middle 11:46

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Your partner won’t set boundaries with their ex – and you’re paying the price. Maybe they fear retaliation. Maybe they’re terrified of conflict. Either way, it feels like the high conflict ex still has emotional control over your partner and far too much influence in your lives. You’ve tried raising it gently. You’ve tried stepping in to help. But …

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💁🏻‍♀️ My take on “don’t take it personally” 4:16

2M ago4:16

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The most infuriating stepparenting advice I heard/read over and over again was “Oh just don’t take it personally! It’s not you; it’s the role. Your stepkid would treat anyone in your position the same way.” Today, I'll share what I wish those folks would've said instead. Read the full transcript on Substack >> -- ➡️ STRUGGLING? START HERE! 🧡 JOIN O…

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Shonen Jumping the Gun: Initial D 53:33

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Now that that's all out of the way, we can do something we actually want to do. In the inaugural episode of a new arc, Moxie the Yeen and Isekai Sensei-Sama are going pedal to the metal with Initial D. Chat with us instantly by clicking here! Support the show Sugoi Mart is your one-stop shop for the best Japanese snacks, candy, toys, and merch! Cli…

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Simple Step: Empowered Parenting 9:05

2M ago9:05

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Resources Episode 214. Does Permissive Parenting Help or Hurt? Discover How to Know and Grow Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child by John Gottman Love and Logic Parenting Method - Love and Logic is a research-driven, whole-child philosophy founded in 1977. This authoritative approach is used by parents and leading educators worldwide. Episode 1…

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The 3 Vacation/Holiday Checklists Every Busy Mum Needs (So You Don’t Come Home to Chaos and Overwhelm) #168 16:04

2M ago16:04

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Going away is meant to be relaxing. So why does it so often feel like everything has to fall apart just to get there? You’re running around trying to remember if the passports are packed… …the fridge is still full of food… …and somehow the suitcase still isn’t zipped. And let’s not even talk about the mess you walk into when you come home. Sound fa…

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#105: “Do I Need a Baby to Feel Valid?” and Other Stepmom Struggles 41:12

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This episode is a raw, unfiltered Ask Me Anything from the stepmom trenches (on Instagram). Alicia gets real about some of the most vulnerable (and let’s be honest, slightly rage-inducing) questions stepmoms are dealing with—like: • “Why do I feel like I won’t be good enough until we have a kid together?” • “Will I ever feel relaxed around the ex?”…

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7. When To Set Boundaries With a Toxic Ex – And How to Do It 17:10

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Struggling to set boundaries or hold them when she pushes back? In this episode, you’ll learn how to create boundaries that actually work with the high conflict ex, and how to follow through, even if she escalates, badmouths you, or tries to guilt-trip you into giving in. This is your practical, compassionate guide to taking your power back, protec…

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❤️‍🩹 Parental alienation perspective shift 3:36

2M ago3:36

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Parental alienation is the most “dark night of the soul” challenge we faced in our blended family... but eventually our stepfamily did find hope and healing. Read the full transcript on Substack >> -- ➡️ STRUGGLING? START HERE! 🧡 JOIN OUR SUPPORT COMMUNITY 🗣️ SHARE YOUR OWN STORY! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other s…

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Shonen Jumping the Gun: Ping-Pong Peril 1:01:25

2M ago1:01:25

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The final series in this batch of drops, and so the final episode in this "new series drop" arc. Moxie the Yeen and Isekai Sensei-Sama are talking about Ping-Pong Peril, as well as a wrap up of this group. Chat with us instantly by clicking here! Support the show Sugoi Mart is your one-stop shop for the best Japanese snacks, candy, toys, and merch!…