Best Stepmama Podcasts (2025)

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#128: Too Close to Be Heard: The Real Reason Your Partner Shuts Down 19:24

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2d ago19:24

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Are you tired of repeating yourself and feeling like your partner just doesn’t hear you? Whether it’s dad guilt, lack of boundaries with the kids, inconsistency in parenting, or not feeling prioritized in your relationship — this episode is here to validate and support you. In this episode, Alicia breaks down why communication feels so hard in blen…

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#127: My House, Her Hoodie, and a Whole Lotta Feelings 31:46

9d ago31:46

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In this deeply honest episode, we’re getting into the emotional weeds of what happens when the ex’s belongings, photos, or influence are still showing up in your home. From hoodies and framed photos to never-ending texts between your partner and their ex, it can start to feel like you’re suffocating in someone else’s life. Especially for childless …

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#126: When the Ex Still Haunts Your Blended Family: Stepmom Jealousy Explained 25:52

16d ago25:52

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Is your partner’s past still taking up space in your present-day relationship? You’re not alone—and you’re not crazy. Whether it's memories of the ex, old traditions, or constant reminders of “how things used to be,” retroactive jealousy and emotional triggers are real in stepmom life. In this episode, we’re unpacking the emotional weight of feelin…

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#125: When Adult Stepkids Don’t Accept You (and How to Stop Letting It Steal Your Peace) 21:30

23d ago21:30

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When you thought things would finally get easier once they were grown… but your adult stepkids still make you feel like an outsider. In this episode, Alicia digs into what’s really going on when adult stepkids won’t accept you — and how to stop tying your peace to their approval. She shares the emotional layers behind this rejection, why it’s not a…

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#124: When Kids Don’t Listen (And It’s Not Because You’re the Stepmom) 16:10

1M ago16:10

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Are you a childless or childfree stepmom feeling like a broken record? Alicia gets real about the exhausting cycle of repeating yourself to your stepkids—whether it's chores, routines, or basic expectations—and feeling like it's never enough. She opens up about her own realization that forgetfulness and resistance aren’t about being a stepmom—they’…

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#123: Why Stepmom Resentment Sneaks In (and How to Stop It) 31:06

1M ago31:06

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In this truth-telling episode, Alicia pulls back the curtain on one of the most common (but least talked about) emotions in stepfamily life: resentment. It doesn’t show up overnight—it builds quietly from all the unspoken expectations, invisible labor, and bottled-up feelings that come with being a stepmom. Alicia shares why resentment creeps in wh…

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#122: When Co-Parenting Isn’t Possible (Because the Ex Is a Nightmare) 18:06

1M ago18:06

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If you’ve tried to co-parent with someone who thrives on drama, control, or straight-up chaos… this episode is your safe space and wake-up call. In Episode 122 of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia breaks down what to do when co-parenting feels impossible because the ex just won’t cooperate. We’re not here to sugarcoat—we’re here to speak truth. Co-p…

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#121: Peace Over Presents: Letting Go of Comparison in Your Blended Family Christmas 31:28

2M ago31:28

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When the holidays roll around, so does the pressure — to make it fair, to make it magical, and to not lose your mind when the ex goes overboard or your stepkids start comparing gifts. In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia unpacks the gift-giving grief that shows up for so many stepmoms — the quiet, unspoken frustration of trying not t…

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#120: Sibling Rivalry + Stepkid Drama: Holiday Edition 16:49

2M ago16:49

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The holidays can feel like a ticking time bomb in blended families — forced togetherness, high expectations, and the pressure to make everything magical can lead to major tension between stepkids and bio kids. In this episode, Alicia Krasko tackles the emotional chaos of holiday dynamics: sibling rivalry, stepkid drama, and what to do when your par…

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#119: Feeling Left Out as a Stepmom: Why It Happens and What to Do 15:07

2M ago15:07

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Have you ever felt like an outsider in your own home? In this heartfelt and practical episode, Alicia breaks down why stepmoms often feel left out of family moments — and what you can do about it. From unspoken group texts to being excluded from decisions and traditions, Alicia shares real-life examples (including a cringe-worthy moment at Cedar Po…

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#118: When Your Partner Sides With the Kids: What Every Stepmom Needs to Know 32:33

2M ago32:33

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When your partner sides with the kids, it can feel like betrayal — or at the very least, like you’ve been completely shut out. This episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast digs into those moments of emotional hurt and confusion that so many stepmoms experience but few talk about openly. We explore the power dynamics at play and the often invisible loya…

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#117: Why Peace Isn’t the Same as Perfection 20:19

3M ago20:19

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By Alicia Krasko

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#116: What If I Don’t Like My Stepkids? The Truth No One Talks About 27:28

3M ago27:28

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What if you don’t like your stepkids? It’s the question that stepmoms whisper to themselves and rarely admit out loud. In this episode, Alicia unpacks why these feelings show up, why they don’t make you a “bad stepmom,” and how to move through them without shame. You’ll learn: Why it’s normal to not always like your stepkids How societal expectatio…

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#115: Stepmom vs. Screen Time: When You’re the Only House with Phone Rules 27:47

3M ago27:47

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Being the “strict” house isn’t easy — especially when you’re parenting a teenager who has unlimited freedom at their other home. In this episode, Alicia dives into a real stepmom story from Erica, who’s been a stepmom for 11 years and is now facing the challenges of raising a 13-year-old stepdaughter in two very different households. At Erica’s hou…

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#114: My Why: Stepmom Coaching, The Stepmom Side Community, and Podcast 22:22

3M ago22:22

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In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia Krasko opens up about her why—the real reason she started coaching stepmoms, built The Stepmom Side Community, and launched this very podcast. She shares her raw, unfiltered story of hitting rock bottom as a stepmom, googling “how to get divorced,” and feeling like an outsider in her own home. Ali…

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#113: The Messy Middle of Stepmom Life: Intrusive Thoughts, Comparison, and Control 41:56

4M ago41:56

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Do you ever catch yourself spiraling with intrusive thoughts about not being “enough” as a stepmom? Maybe you wonder if you’ll ever feel as important as your partner’s kids’ mom. Or you feel that rush of pressure to have a baby of your own—just so you can finally feel “equal.” If that’s you, you are not alone. In this episode of The Stepmom Side Po…

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#112: Getting Over Your Partner’s Past (And How to Stop Throwing It in Their Face) 29:07

4M ago29:07

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In this candid episode, Alicia gets real about something most stepmoms won’t say out loud: you want to be over your partner’s past… but reminders keep ambushing you—kids’ faces, old photos, in-law stories, even the house you live in. She explains why your brain grabs the past when you don’t feel safe, the hidden cost of re-hashing old wounds, and a…

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#111: When You’re Spiraling as a Stepmom: Why It Happens and How to Stop 27:43

4M ago27:43

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Spiraling happens to every stepmom. You’re not broken—you’re human. In this episode, Alicia breaks down why stepmoms spiral, when it usually happens, and the steps you can take to calm your nervous system and find your footing again. If you’ve ever felt like your thoughts are racing, your chest is tight, and everything feels like too much, this epi…

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#110: The Secret Journal Every Stepmom Should Have 22:07

4M ago22:07

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Ever wish you could say exactly what’s on your mind to your partner’s ex… but know it’ll only make things worse? In this episode, Alicia shares the concept of an “Ex-Files”—a private place to store your unspoken thoughts, frustrations, and screenshots. Learn why it’s essential for your peace, your relationship, and your stepmom sanity. You’ll disco…

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#109: When In-Laws Stay Close to the Ex: Navigating the Challenges as a Stepmom 30:44

5M ago30:44

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By Alicia Krasko

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#108: When You Can’t Step Back: Managing Stepmom Stress in the Heat of the Moment 20:08

5M ago20:08

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What do you do when someone says, "Just take a break," but you're knee-deep in dinner, the ex is texting, your stepkid is criticizing your cooking, and you’re one eye twitch away from totally losing it? In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia is getting real about how to handle stress when stepping back isn’t an option. Spoiler: she’s n…

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#107: Breaking Codependency as a Stepmom—Finding Your Worth Beyond Others 47:34

5M ago47:34

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This honest and empowering episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast dives deep into how codependency shows up uniquely in the stepmom experience. From emotional overfunctioning and people-pleasing to the fear of abandonment and control, Alicia shares real talk from her own life, plus tools you can use to start healing. If you've ever felt like your valu…

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#106: Why Stepmoms and Their Partners Keep Having the Same Fights with Annmarie Chereso 1:04:05

5M ago1:04:05

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What if conflict isn't the problem—but the portal? In this raw and real episode, Alicia is joined by Annmarie, a fellow stepmom and conflict resolution ninja, to unpack what’s really going on underneath the same old fights. (Spoiler: It’s not about the dishes.) They dig into: Why your drama triangle has assigned seating How to tell if you're reacti…

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#105: “Do I Need a Baby to Feel Valid?” and Other Stepmom Struggles 41:12

5M ago41:12

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This episode is a raw, unfiltered Ask Me Anything from the stepmom trenches (on Instagram). Alicia gets real about some of the most vulnerable (and let’s be honest, slightly rage-inducing) questions stepmoms are dealing with—like: • “Why do I feel like I won’t be good enough until we have a kid together?” • “Will I ever feel relaxed around the ex?”…

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#104: Overwhelmed on Transition Days? Let’s Talk About It 44:14

6M ago44:14

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Transition days. You know, the ones where your quiet, clean house suddenly turns into a full-blown chaos factory. Whether your stepkids are arriving for the weekend, the week, or every other Tuesday, transition days can bring stress, overstimulation, and a whole lot of feelings you didn’t expect. In this episode, Alicia is answering real questions …

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#103: You're Not the Fixer: How to Truly Support Your Spouse 6:35

6M ago6:35

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Alicia gets real about what it means to support your partner through parenting challenges. From learning when to speak up to knowing when to simply listen, Alicia shares personal stories and practical tips for navigating these tough moments with love and patience. This episode is for anyone who's ever struggled with how to show up for their spouse …

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#102: Stepmom Struggles: Missing the Firsts and Feeling Less Than 12:03

6M ago12:03

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In this deeply relatable solo episode, Alicia opens up about a struggle so many stepmoms face but rarely talk about—what it feels like to miss out on the “firsts.” First marriage, first baby, first home, first big life moments with your partner... when you weren’t part of those, it can trigger deep feelings of jealousy, insecurity, and even grief. …

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#101: Finding Me Time Amidst Blended Family Chaos 10:02

6M ago10:02

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In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia Krasko gets real about the silent struggle so many stepmoms face: losing themselves in the chaos of blended family life. One day you’re living your carefree (ish) life, and the next, you're the emotional project manager of a household that runs on other people's schedules and drama. Sound familiar…

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#100: You’re Not That Special (And That’s the Best News Ever) 7:39

7M ago7:39

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In this episode, Alicia is here to lovingly snatch you out of your spiral with a bold-but-needed reminder: You’re not that special. (And yes, that’s the best news you’ll hear today.) Because if you’ve ever thought you were the only stepmom feeling like an outsider, overwhelmed by an ex, or questioning how the hell you ended up in this role—you’re a…

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#99: Summer Break & The Stepkid Shuffle: How to Stay Sane with Kids Going Back and Forth 19:44

7M ago19:44

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Summer break in a stepfamily isn’t always sunshine and s’mores—it can be a whirlwind of transitions, mood swings, and scheduling chaos. In this episode, Alicia gets real about the emotional toll of summer break as a stepmom, especially when the stepkids are constantly going back and forth between homes. She breaks down the most common summer strugg…

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#98: Feeling Powerless as a Stepmom? It Might Be the Victim Mindset 17:17

7M ago17:17

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In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia dives into a powerful truth that many stepmoms avoid: staying stuck in victimhood may feel safe—but it’s quietly stealing your joy, your voice, and your power. If you’ve ever thought, “No one gets it,” “Nothing I do matters,” or “I’m just done trying,” this episode is your wake-up call and warm hu…

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#97: Not a Stepmom Yet… But Kinda? Navigating the Awkward In-Between 23:08

7M ago23:08

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Alicia tackles the unspoken phase of stepmom life—the before. You’ve met the kids. You’re dating the dad. You’re not a stepmom technically, but you're already feeling all the weird, confusing emotions that come with blending families. This “in-between” season is messy, emotional, and full of what the actual efffff moments. Alicia breaks down how to…

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#96: Documenting for Court: Protecting Your Peace in High-Conflict Co-Parenting with Nika Chadwick 45:51

8M ago45:51

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In this powerful episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia Krasko is joined by Nika Chadwick, an expert in navigating high-conflict co-parenting situations. They dive deep into understanding what high-conflict actually means, how to recognize it, and how to protect your peace and sanity while managing it. Whether you’re facing constant drama, nav…

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#95: Ask Me Anything from Instagram-Stepmom Life Unfiltered: Tackling Disrespect, Boundary Issues, and Mom Drama 32:19

8M ago32:19

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In today’s episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia answers questions from her broadcast channel and "Ask Me Anything" from Instagram. She dives deep into some of the toughest struggles stepmoms face—like dealing with disrespectful stepkids, managing the emotions of bio kids, handling the drama from bio moms, and navigating tricky boundaries wit…

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#94: How To Handle It When Your Partner Just Doesn’t Get It and You're A Stepmom 16:07

8M ago16:07

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Ever poured your heart out to your partner, only to get blank stares or the dreaded “You’re overreacting”? In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia breaks down the emotional disconnect so many stepmoms feel in their relationship — and how to get your partner to finally understand your experience (without it turning into World War III). F…

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#93: Different Parenting Styles = Step Hell: How to Parent as a Team in a Blended Family 16:35

8M ago16:35

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Are you stuck being the only one enforcing structure while your partner hands out snacks and screen time like it’s Halloween? Listen in as Alicia dives into one of the most frustrating parts of stepmom life — the moment you realize you’ve become the “bad cop” in your own home… and your partner is just vibing with chaos. You’ll learn why this dynami…

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#92: Why It Stings When Your Stepkids Talk About Their Mom (and What to Do About It) 13:43

8M ago13:43

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Alicia dives deep into a feeling many stepmoms know all too well—that gut-punch of jealousy or sadness when your stepkids talk about their mom. Whether it’s an innocent story, a glowing compliment, or yet another comparison, the emotional reaction can be real—and often comes with a heavy dose of guilt. Alicia gets real about where those feelings co…

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#91: Mother’s Day When You’re a Stepmom: Finding Peace in the Chaos 13:18

9M ago13:18

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Mother’s Day can be a tricky holiday for stepmoms, filled with mixed emotions and complicated dynamics. In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia offers stepmoms practical advice and emotional support for navigating the complexities of Mother’s Day. From managing expectations with co-parents to finding personal ways to feel appreciated, A…

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#90: The Truth About Comparing Yourself to the Mom and How to Break Free 14:48

9M ago14:48

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Alicia dives deep into the emotional rollercoaster of comparing yourself to your partner’s ex. Whether it’s scrolling through social media or feeling like you don’t measure up in the stepfamily dynamic, Alicia talks about why comparison is so common (but totally toxic) for stepmoms. She uncovers how comparison affects your sense of identity, belong…

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#89: When Your Partner Sides with the Kids (and You're Left Wondering WTF Just Happened) 10:23

9M ago10:23

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In today’s episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, we dive into one of the most frustrating and emotionally-charged dynamics stepmoms face: when your partner sides with the kids and leaves you feeling unsupported. Ever find yourself thinking, "Wait, am I the problem here?" or "Why do I feel like I’m living in the emotional Hunger Games?" Trust me, you…

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#88: Estate Planning, Budgeting & Smart Money Moves with Melissa Hampton 1:03:16

9M ago1:03:16

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Starting over financially can feel overwhelming—especially after divorce, debt, and career setbacks. In this episode, I sit down with Melissa Hampton, a financial expert and mom who transformed her life after hitting rock bottom. She shares practical strategies for budgeting, debt repayment, and estate planning—plus the mindset shifts that helped h…

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#87: The Stepmom’s Guide to Navigating Tricky Conversations with Your Stepchild 8:46

10M ago8:46

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In this episode, Alicia shares actionable strategies for navigating difficult conversations with your stepchild. From finding the right time to approaching sensitive topics with empathy, you’ll learn how to handle those awkward moments with confidence and grace. Whether you’re discussing rules, feelings, or family dynamics, this episode will help y…

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#86: The Stepmom Identity Crisis – Doing the “Mom” Things Without the Credit 27:34

10M ago27:34

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In this episode, Alicia dives into a common struggle many stepmoms face: doing all the “mom” things but not getting the recognition or credit for it. As a stepmom, it can feel emotionally draining to pour your heart and energy into your stepkids, only to be seen as “just” the stepmom. Alicia discusses the disconnect between the work you’re putting …

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#85: Surviving the 'You're Not My Mom' Moments: How to Navigate Rejection from Your Stepkid 15:53

10M ago15:53

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In this candid episode, Alicia dives deep into the heartache and humor behind that gut-wrenching moment when your stepchild says, "You're not my mom."She unpacks the emotional roller coaster that comes with blended family life and shares practical tips to help you navigate those painful moments with grace and resilience. In This Episode, You’ll Lea…

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#84: Happiness is an Inside Job—Even in Stepfamily Chaos 10:29

10M ago10:29

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In today’s episode, we’re tackling a big one—happiness. More specifically, how YOUR happiness is an inside job, even when stepfamily stress is trying to bulldoze its way into your peace. If you’ve ever felt like your emotions are at the mercy of the ex, your stepkids, or the never-ending co-parenting drama, this episode is for you. Alicia breaks do…

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#83: Stepmom Guilt & Grief: Navigating a Breakup When You’re Attached to Your Stepkids 13:24

11M ago13:24

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What happens when a stepmom decides to leave her relationship—but she’s deeply connected to her stepkids? This is a heartbreak that no one talks about. Today, Alicia is diving into: How to break the news to your stepkids Whether you should stay in contact after the breakup How to deal with the overwhelming guilt and sadness Healthy ways to cope and…

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#82: When Your Partner Won't Step Up: Navigating Stepmom Struggles with Stepkids and 'Ours Babies' 35:04

11M ago35:04

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In this episode, Alicia is tackling one of the most frustrating issues many stepmoms face: what to do when your partner isn't stepping up with their kids or your "ours baby." It's hard when you feel like you're doing it all on your own, especially when your partner's involvement with their stepkids or shared children is lacking. First, Alicia dives…

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#81: What To Do When Your Partner Doesn’t Back You Up as a Stepmom 18:14

11M ago18:14

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Welcome to another episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast! In this episode, Alicia dives into a tough but important topic: what to do when your partner doesn’t back you up as a stepmom. If you’re feeling unsupported, frustrated, or like you’re handling everything on your own, you’re not alone. Alicia shares actionable advice to help you navigate this …

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#80: Burnt Out and Overwhelmed? How to Reclaim Your Peace as a Stepmom 14:01

11M ago14:01

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Feeling overwhelmed by the demands of stepmom life? In this episode, we tackle the relentless cycle of burnout and share practical strategies to reclaim your peace. From setting boundaries to finding your support system, this episode will help you take the first steps toward a calmer, more confident life. Plus, discover how connecting with like-min…

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#79: The Impact of Alcohol on Marriage, Parenting, and Relationships with Casey McGuire Davidson 1:08:25

12M ago1:08:25

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In this episode, Casey McGuire Davidson, a life sobriety coach, shares her personal journey with alcohol and its profound impact on her relationships, parenting, and well-being. Casey discusses the societal pressures and stigmas surrounding alcohol consumption, especially for high-achieving women and mothers, and how "mommy wine culture" perpetuate…